"so for you to say 'been there, done that' just show how de-sensitized you are to actual achievements."
No shit, that's the entire point - society doesn't care anymore because it isn't shiny. Take a survey on the street of space telescopes and most won't even be aware of the Jame Webb.
"so to attribute all of that spending to 3 decades is wrong as well."
Much of those subsequent decades built off of the information and ideas generated in that time period. They still had regular manned missions and large innovations like the space shuttle. No more manned launches from NASA. No more prestige.
"But you don't seem to get that aviation and rocket innovation is indeed rocket science, "
I do get that. Now please go compare the rate of innovation and newly adopted designs today versus decades ago. Today it's all about tweaking some existing model for slightly more efficiency and running computer models.