2. The webhook can contain a payload, and you can but the suspend step into a for-loop. You could literally say, for-loop forever the suspend until the result of the suspend step (which can be the result of the evaluation of the webhook payload by your rule is true). For that, you will need to use another primitive that we expose which is "Break" that will break out of the for-loop
3. I'm a bit unsure of the term synchronous call. We have a long list of APIs https://app.windmill.dev/openapi.html#/ and you fetch the status of the flow or trigger a flow in a synchronous http webhook to wait for the result. As to force the state of the workflow. We do not expose something like that but it could be added easily.
Happy to chat if we could be a good fit for your needs: ruben@windmill.dev