https://www.similarweb.com/top-websites/ (worldwide)
1. google.com 83.9B visits (~ user sessions, per Apr)
2. youtube.com 32.7B visits
3. facebook.com 16.8B visits
4. twitter.com 6.4B visits
5. instagram.com 6.3B visits
This sounds just like your strongly held opinion.
Someone who doesn't visit this website could say, "People seem to care too much about HN. I don't use HN and am under the impression I'm not missing anything." They wouldn't even be wrong. But it's also dismissive of everyone who does use this site and ultimately irrelevant to any issues which the HN community might have with the service.
This also naively doesn't consider people who access the services via apps instead of visiting a website, which in 2023, are going to be a minority for a consumer-oriented social media platform.