If she could use an iOS service to rephrase her ex husband’s texts it would make a big difference in her life. Thoughts? Willing to pay up to $200 month for this if necessary.
The key is, you do not "rephrase texts". You get a court order REQUIRING all communications to go through an app that can be monitored by the court for compliance with the protective order:
https://www.ourfamilywizard.com/practitioners/courts
Otherwise... Honestly, the people who should be rephrasing the messages are quite possibly the police, depending on the terms of the protective order, but if the messages are that upsetting... Once you already have the protective order, the next step is enforcing it. Sorry.
(I am not a lawyer and cannot give legal advice. I heard about the program from a person I know who worked on it, which got me curious about the existence of such things.)