I have agnostic/atheist friends who are “better Christians” than many of the professed Christians I grew up with in Central Texas, and the country I live in, Germany, is currently more of a “Christian” country than my home region, despite (or because of?) a much lower level of personal faith, if you use “what did Jesus tell us to do” as your main metric (feeding, clothing, housing poor), but less-religious Finland is even more Christian by that measure.
And I say that as someone who still considers herself to be a Christian.
The Western world is a lot less authoritarian than it was 60 years ago for people like me - women, that is. In the early 60s, I could not get a bank account, a job or a driver’s license without my husband’s permission in Bavaria.
And that was nothing to very Catholic Francoist Spain, where I couldn’t leave the country or study at university without my father’s (if unmarried) or husband’s permission.