How do you quickly bail from email? It is a lot of effort to switch to a new email. The friction to levave is so high that your points 2 and 3 are not true.
Part of why I pushed myself to move away from Gmail was I was still using the @gmail address occasionally.
Luckily, I'd been using my own domains for a long time for most emails, so it's been a pretty easy transition - I still have Fastmail poll Gmail for emails to make sure I see the ones that still go to @gmail.
I say that as a techie with his own domain.
And you can be I own the domain for the new email. Not going to make that mistake again.