They should change the state motto to, “a slightly less boring version of Nebraska”
But when I was living in K.C. we were jealous of so-much-more cosmopolitan Chicago.
You’re right about the draw though. The KC metro is growing — sort of feels like Denver felt about 15 years ago
http://www.publicpurpose.com/hwy-tti99ratio.htm https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kansas_City_metropolitan_area https://www.marc.org/
Also, if you find yourself in the area, Highway 7 is on the Kansas side while 7 Highway is on the Missouri side.
The area north of the river is referred to as the Northland.
Everybody in Kansas calls it K-7