In major cities where people want to live (slash where well paying jobs are), it is very difficult to justify ownership. For example, a $600k house at 7% interest will loose money over 5 years even if you sell for $650k. And not just loose money, but loose even more money than renting for like $4k/mo. (And this accounts for a $100k down payment!)
There is basically no way to justify ownership in these areas financially without coming into a significant amount of capital. And while you could afford it with a high cashflow (two high income earners, which is doable in major cities), you can get a nice apartment for $4k/mo that might have even more amenities than your house would have (like a hot tub).
I think this is a huge bummer, especially because owning an apartment or condo is becoming more rare as well, since renting is more financially attractive to property owners. This basically makes it much more difficult to build wealth, and allows large developers to make off with a huge amount of money.
So it does feel kind of hopeless in these large cities, even if you make a ton of money. You basically either have to accept taking a huge loss on ownership (unless you stay there for decades or get a great deal), or settle for renting.