But "even" and "odd" are all about whether you can partition something into an equal number of pairs or not. If you're asking "in what position" (ordinals), you've explicitly said you're not in the realm of counting sets of things. I would argue division makes no sense in the realm of ordinals! Everyone is saying the transfinite ordinals alternate even-odd, but those are exactly the numbers where we've stated we're only interested in position, not counting. It's not clear to me why "dividing" an ordinal number into equal pairs makes any sense. (Whereas it makes perfect sense for cardinal numbers.)
Sez you. I can just as easily define even and odd in terms of whether or not I can arrive at a given position in a (potentially infinite) sequence taking by taking two steps at a time.
An old HN comment echoes the same sentiment: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=17677010
If we really are teaching kids, teach ordinals not cardinals.
Well, you can introduce them to the diagonal argument and the idea of a one-to-one correspondence. That's nothing to sneeze at.
But I think the real trick here is to teach them that numbers can stand for different kinds of ideas, and in particular, they can stand for "how many" or "what position", and that these are different. I would start, not with infinity, but with negative numbers. You can't have "one less than zero" because you can't take away anything from zero. That is the definition of zero. But you can have "the thing before zero", or, to be more precise, "the thing before the zeroth thing (where the zeroth thing is the thing before the first thing)", which we call -1.
Likewise you can't have "one more than infinity" because that's just infinity. That's the definition of infinity. But you can have "the thing after infinity" (or, to be more precise, "the thing after all the things that are the nth thing for all finite values of n", which we call ω.