Exchange hall passes with your wife. That'll put the spring back in
your step.
Unfortunately, I just have a feeling this would destroy our relationship. Maybe that is an indication of a weak relationship, I'm not sure. We've been together for 10 years.
EDIT:
I should clarify after reading up in more detail on what a "Hall Pass" is.
My wife and I could talk in pure hypotheticals about romance with famous people. That is fine. But actually pursuing it is a different story.
I think the idea of pursuing other romantic options is, of course, really exciting and motivating... but I'm interested in options that don't destroy my relationship which I have worked hard to maintain, and value immensely.