When I was a young child I wanted to be a truck driver because I spoke to them on the CB all day that was my internet and had a lot of fun. It sounded like a cool career to me at the time but then I found out what their lives were really like. Then when I was a teen I wanted to be a cop. I volunteered thousands of hours to the local PD. Then LAPD said one line that made me think long and hard about it. "We have new positions opening every day" and I knew I would have to start with them unless I could get the local PD to sponsor me and I knew what that phrase really meant, so I fell back on tech which was just a fun hobby for me.
I'm glad I gave up on those things.
[Edit] Oh yeah, and when I was a child I wanted to be a Jedi. It wasn't until the prequels much later in life that I found out I was missing the midichlorian's.
In a broader sense, I think letting go of dreams is extremely important for success.
Create an "unbucket" list for the side quests that detract from the main quests:
Can you explain more?
1. write down 25 goals
2. circle the top 5 items
3. the remaining 20 goals are your “avoid-at-all-costs list”
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I'm currently starting a business, organizing a conference, growing my family, and tending my digital garden.
In order to pursue these ambitious goals, I had to drop my secondary dreams.
I've committed to giving up music practice (and many other things) so that I can be a better founder, organizer, parent, and artist.
I will never be great at music, and that's okay.
Kudos to you. If I make my goals SMART [1], maybe I can make solid progress.
[1] Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound