You are right. Just because food is fatty doesn't mean it is healthy. I did not want to make the comment too long but there is the concern for the quality of fats which is pretty complicated problem. There are some simple rules -- for example you definitely want to stay away from highly processed fats. But further than that things get more complicated.

As an example, we are told that fish is generally one of the healthiest fats around. But what people forget is that this is assuming wild fish and the kind that does not accumulate rare metals. Salmon is pretty health... unless we are talking farmed salmon. Farmed salmon is fed with highly processed, carbohydrate-rich feed which completely changes the fat content of the salmon making it very high omega 6 to 3 ratio. And God knows what else...

Beef tallow -- I have simple solution for this at least for my home use. I buy lots of quality red meat. Whenever I may broth or render fats for any reason, I gather them all and store them for later.