From my uninformed perspective, this seems like a co-opting of the word "size" to mean something different than its typical usage.
From my uninformed perspective, this seems like a co-opting of the word "size" to mean something different than its typical usage.
So to me this is just quibbling about the definition of the word "size" which isn't a productive conversation. Stop calling it "size" and give it a specific terminology ("cardinality") instead and the whole unintuitive naming problem is sidestepped.
That's why we need a proper concept of cardinality.
Maybe where I'm struggling is that I'm not familiar with why this notion of differently sized infinities is useful.
That said it's not wrong to lump together all infinite sets and say their size is infinite. That's how third graders understand the size of a set anyways. It just isn't precise.
There are four possible responses to this argument. The first is to accept that this means that there are infinite sets which have different fundamental properties (the "infinite" in a "real number has an infinite number of digits" can't be iterated the same way as the "infinite" in the "infinite number of real numbers"), and the way these differ is labeled the "size" of the infinite set. The second is to object to definition of a real number (which has other repercussions in other branches of mathematics). The third is to object to the ability to iterate over an infinite set (essentially, finitism). The final is to object to the idea of an infinite set in the first place (essentially, ultrafinitism).
The response to Cantor's proof of the uncountability of real numbers was basically for mathematicians to explore all the different responses, and ultimately, the first response is the one that is accepted by the majority of mathematicians, although some still work under models that object to the proof's correctness in some fashion.
That's a good start. Now we need to precisely define "number of" and "in".
Suppose I put a few bonbons on a plate in front of you. How would you assign "the number" of items in the "set of bonbons on the plate in front of you"?
That said, it's certainly not an "obvious" idea and in fact it took many years until it was widely adopted by the mathematical community.
Anyway if you want a set to be at least as big as its subsets and consider them to be of equal size when they're isomorphic then you kind of end up with cardinality as a notion of size. In some sense it's simply the best notion of size we have if all you have is the structure of sets.
There are of course other structures you could choose, like topological spaces, vector spaces etc. Those can fail to be isomorphic even when the underlying sets are, so you get a richer notion of 'size'.
It is used like this because it corresponds to an intuitive property of size. If I say that set X is larger than set Y, it comes naturally to assume that, if I were to lay out their elements one by one in pairs, at some point I would run out of elements from Y but still have more elements in X.
For example, even without knowing how many fingers I have, I can check whether there are more pebbles on a beach than fingers on my hand by putting a pebble on every finger. If there are no more pebbles and I have free fingers, the size of the set of fingers was actually larger than the set of pebbles.
And while of course I would never finish if I started doing this with the naturals and the rationals, I can still prove that it can be done if given infinite time; but that, given infinite time, when comparing the naturals to the reals in the same way, we would run out of naturals and still have more reals left.
Merely by definition.
Yes, but if you have a bijection between elements of that set and another, they're still the same size. Consider the strictly positive integers and the strictly negative integers: for any x, there's exactly one corresponding -x. Both sets are infinite, but they're the same size. Contrast that with, for example, the reals and the natural numbers: for each natural number n, there's not a corresponding real number but rather an infinite number of reals in [n, n+1). The sets are not the same size.
I tried to explain the resulting "multiverse philosophy" (not really related to the idea of physical alternate universes) here: https://iblech.gitlab.io/bb/multiverse.html