I really wish people would stop pushing back on people who are interested or curious about how to make code perform better. Of course you don't want people scattering weird SIMD intrinsics all over mundane parts of your web backend in an unhinged attempt to shave microseconds off a response. But in my career I've never really seen people do this anyway.
What you do want though is programmers who have spent some time understanding how to structure code to perform well on modern hardware. Because often times that structure is NOT a mess, it may even be easier to work with that the usual idioms in your industry or language. Grouping data into adjacent chunks with arrays or array backed data structures has more benefits than just leveraging the L1 cache. It is sometimes also convenient.