It's often tough for developers to see this for the same reason it's tough to write documentation-- reasoning about a beginner's perspective is a specific skill that takes study and practice. That's why software companies that need financially stable products hire technical writers and interface designers, and it's a place where FOSS really struggles.
For example, Mastodon's active userbase has dropped 50% since its peak during the beginning of the Musk/Twitter debacle... even for the ones brave enough to plunge in head-first, it was too much technical resistance compared to the more straightforward alternatives that they had already abandoned. I think it was a missed opportunity.
All the classic mob movies have something about never talk business on the phone, always meeting in person in some dark waterfront or warehouse location. Here, they would only be required to meet in person once! If someone is too lazy even for that, well then, enjoy prison I guess