> That the crucial difference between a human being and AI is that if you show a 3 year old kid one picture of a cat, a kid can recognize all other cats.
Have you done this test for real? My nephew calls everything which moves but not a human a "dog". In his world there are flying dogs and swimming dogs. Probably if he would see an elephant that would be a big dog, while a giraffe would be a tall dog. Now obviously he will learn the customary categories, but it is definitely not a one-shot thing.
> You can feed ML 5000 pictures of cats and it can recognize a cat in a picture with something like 95% confidence.
This is an area of active research. One term of art is "one-shot learning". The general idea is that you show 5 million things to the AI, but none of them are a harumpf, and it learns how "things" are. And then you show it a single image of a harumpf and tell it that it is a harumpf and it will be able to classify things as harumpf or not from then on.
How great do these things work? They kinda work, but you can still get a phd for making a better one. So they are not that great. But I wouldn't pin my hat on this one "crucial difference between a human being and an AI", because you might get surprised once humans teach the AIs this trick too.