I’m not sure about resuming from sleep, but does mosh address your network stability issues?
The cryptography is standard AES-128 in OCB3 mode. It's been around long enough, and has had enough security scrutiny to at least discover a few minor DoS vulnerabilities, that it isn't entirely unreviewed.
For the cipher itself, see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/OCB_mode#Attacks
Mosh has been effectively unmaintained since long before QUIC even existed. It should be rewritten to use QUIC, except that QUIC's requirement for TLS certificates rather than generic asymmetric cryptography basically breaks any integrations like this.