Maybe if you're from FAANG land. I took 10k cut (90k to 80k) from my salary leaving Seattle but gained a union, 20 more days of vacation, a 8% holiday bonus, 90% cheaper insurance, and 500$ less in rent per month in Amsterdam
My percentiles are based on Payscale data.
As most things, the comparison is dependent on what state of life you’re at and your preferences.
Of course this varies state by state, but generally for tech, you net more in US on the average even when you pay for everything that you get with taxes in EU. Starting salaries even outside fang could easily be in like $130k in areas that aren't tech hubs and don't have an inflated COL - in EU this is unheard of.
Starting salary in US for SDE is probably like 100k. Going of single income tax filings your approximate aggregate tax rate will be ~%15. if you have state income tax, prolly like ~20% aggregate.
In Germany you would start at something like $70k and get a 42% tax rate afaik.
So right there you get more than twice the money left over after taxes.
Living costs would probably be close to each other, rent is probably cheaper in Germany cities but groceries and goods are more expensive.
And health insurance and costs are a small percentage of the salary.
The only big difference is that in US you sort of need a car, but again, with monthly cost of a finance for a car you are still not hitting
The biggest difference in cost comes when you start having kids - in US you pay closer to 25% income for all things child related, so that eats into the extra money real quick. For outside of tech, if you make middle class salary in the 70k range, you are much better off in EU, because a lot of things are heavily subsidized.