Ask HN: Ethics on Interviewing as a Future Competitor?
I've been job-searching for a few weeks now, since I don't think my start-up has legs. A recruiter from a company recently reached out to me, and I was interested in it both because (1) they'd built an open-source project I liked, and (2) I knew my company was building something very similar, and even did a product analysis of the other company.
I'm genuinely interested in joining the other company. But I don't have a clear sense of what I should be sharing with whom. My own company's product isn't out yet, so I don't feel comfortable sharing with the other company (which I would likely join instead of my own company) that we're building a competing product -- though I'm not on the team that's working on it.
I also don't feel fully comfortable asking probing questions about the business or engineering of the start-up, even though it's really important to do so to evaluate a company before joining -- it feels kind of wrong for me to be getting good information that I could potentially then use to help my own company's product.
Does anyone have advice on how to navigate this situation?
Thanks.