Ask HN: How do hackers "Get a Life"? or Do they?

Startup is hard work, 14-16hrs/day of work. While you're obsessed with your startup, reading as much advise/tips/tricks in the book, pushing your limits, making connections, pitching/ etc etc, I wonder how many of you actually manage to "live your life". How do you keep your gf/wife happy (if you have any), do you give time to your family, how to do you unwind, how often?

'Cuz personally, I seem totally pre-occupied with my startup 24/7 and often pretend to hear out my wife and rarely talk to my family. I do chill out once in while, but the itch to get back on my laptop is a permanent one!