That was because a single man could earn a living wage to support the family and the wife could support the household.
Since we won't and shouldn't solve this problem by going back to the traditional patriarchal family structure, we must look to other alternatives. And one such alternative would be finding a way to recouple labor to employee earnings such that a married couple with one working spouse can support a family of four.
We can debate gender equality and whatever but the loss of real wages is a problem even if we reverse it