One does not go to war over such incidents unless you are already looking for an excuse to do so.
In a serious culture we could discuss these things using spreadsheets and data using strict epistemology, but in this culture we mostly discuss them in simplistic, cherry picked, "just so" stories, and pile on anyone who dares to step outside the Overton Window of consensus "truth".
The apology should have come immediately after the incident, without anyone asking for it.
It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters. - Epictetus
https://euvsdisinfo.eu/mh17-seven-years-of-lying-and-denying...
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/nov/15/ukraine-fighte...
https://www.npr.org/2023/02/08/1155401602/malaysian-airlines...