> The way Facebook or Uber uses MySQL is not how you will use it.
With large companies like Meta/Facebook, there is no singular "way" that the company uses a particular database. Larger companies typically have self-service generic managed database infrastructure, similar to RDS but internal. The workloads tend to be quite varied.
> (This is before AWS RDS, we had to set replication manually in those days) We had set up replication with
> MySQL 5.6. At that time MySQL replication had a few issues, and it used to break every few days.
Your chronology isn't right: AWS RDS was released in Oct 2009, and gained multi-AZ replication in May 2010. At this time, Postgres didn't even have built-in replication support at all yet; it first gained built-in streaming replication support in Postgres 9.0, released in Sept 2010.
Meanwhile MySQL 5.6 was released (GA) in Feb 2013, several years after RDS already existed.
In any case, if your replication was breaking every few days in MySQL 5.6, that was something specific to your environment / configuration / workload. What you're describing is definitely far from common. If a replication stream breaking this often was the typical experience with MySQL 5.6, at Facebook's scale we would have had a replication breakage every few seconds, and that definitively was not the case.
That's especially true with out-of-the-box software like WordPress. I can't imagine Automattic experienced frequent replication breakages with a normal WP workload, as this would have been hugely operationally problematic for their hosted wordpress.com product. Perhaps you had a misbehaving plugin performing non-deterministic DML or something like that?
That all said -- Postgres is an amazing database, and there are many good reasons to choose it; but as with all technical choices, there's a set of trade-offs to consider. For example, originally Postgres only supported physical replication, not logical replication, and this made upgrading to a new major version quite painful as compared to MySQL.