1. Collect many good quality photos of yourself, in various lighting, directions and settings.

2. Train Stable Diffusion 2.0 to learn this new embedding, this is a bit of an art rather than a science.

3. Find a nice looking prompt with your new embedding that gives you the desired result.

4. Try ControlNet, LoRa, different base models, etc, always questioning your outputs - there's something subtlety off about them...

5. Continue to fine tune your prompt, input, masking and editing

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N. Realise that it would have been easier to just get a photograper.