Snobbery while doing the most trendy thing is usually pretty silly. IPAs are a perfect example of this. IPAs weren't some obscure thing 20 years, but now they are hip so everyone "loves" the most hoppy beer they can find.
Did it ever occur to you and those who think like you that people drink IPAs (and double, Imperial, triple, etc...) because they like them? Not because of lack of experience (I'm old, I've been into beer from all over the world of all types in my travels) but simple preference?