A Growing Number of Scientists Are Convinced the Future Influences the Past
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- telepathy
- future causality
I am not sure which is most likely, but elements of both might exist.
If some world or local event that links you with another person happens, you may both be inspired to think of each other.
Also, "I was going to call you" means "I was thinking about calling you but I have terrible follow-through" for many people, so I was going to call you and you called me is basically saying "you have better follow-through than I do"