I am usually an early adopter but I keep coming back to Docker since Podman is still very rough around the edges, especially in terms of "non-direct" usage (aka other tools)
Once I simlinked the socket, everything worked.
Connect to Docker Daemon with -> TCP Socket -> Engine API URL -> unix:///run/user/$UID/podman/podman.sock
This is an unfortunate part IMHO. podman is not a docker drop-in replacement, but it is advertised as such.