You're using bias in two different ways, one factual and one emotional/intentional. Yes, the facts have a bias in that not every result occurs equally often. But then you insinuate that properly representing that facts is the other kind of bias where recognizing it is somehow creating it or endorsing it, and that any difference in measurement obviously represents an inequity.
> An actually unbiased AI would describe a person cleaning a kitchen and a person robbing, and if pressed would ask the user of the ai to suggest a gender for the character.
You're saying an unbiased AI would apply strong bias to just certain outcomes in an effort to socially engineer us into having "no bias" in some measurements?
Where did it get the bias to consider the ratio of kitchen work to be one of the bad kinds of bias, but the bias towards finding grass growing on the ground one of the acceptable kinds of bias, or would it write stories where there is grass but never specify where the grass is growing, just to help us understand our grass/ground bias?
> if pressed would ask the user of the ai to suggest a gender for the character.
That'd be awesome. Being guilted by your tools for not properly ignoring your senses.
Sure, statistically and obviously a woman only needs to watch for dangerous men, but to make everyone feel better she should either treat women like a threat too and waste everyone's time, or treat men as if they're as safe to her as women are and thus get attacked.
If you're advertising a product you should obviously advertise to all demographics equally because it's hurtful that only women need tampons, and only men need ball-shavers.
> If that seems bad, you don't want an unbiased ai
I want tools that work. If I ask for a measurement I want the real measurement, not the measurement that I should want if I were somehow socially aware enough.
Just fyi, we can have accurate tools and ask them social-justice questions such as "which professions are sexually-biased but don't seem to still have a physical need to be?" But you can't ask a lying tool this - even if you realized you should ask it would insist that there is no difference.