This is too real. You cannot purchase ANY parts from Tesla to do repairs as an independent party. They simply will not sell you parts.
I'm not faulting the employees of tesla - I think they're doing a good job all things considered. But the way things are set up, I suspect there's too much work and the whole process is just not customer focused.
I'd love to buy a tesla (printed or onusb) shop manual. I used to always get one for my other vehicles. I could fix or at least diagnose small things and come to understand my car. (I know tesla can rent you access to their manuals, but that's just degrading)