Consider the Honty Mall problem: it’s like the original problem, except after you pick a box, Honty offers you both of the other boxes. It’s much easier to see swapping is better in this problem, and it’s also easier to see that the chance is 2/3 if you swap. Then you just have to show that the Honty Mall problem is equivalent to the Monty Hall problem, by stipulating that Monty will always open a box that’s empty.