It's hard to explain to developers why an ORM isn't really that great of a solution....but at a high level:
* your database is the core of your app. Abstraction implies that you don't care about the details of your data store, which eventually will lead to two major problems:
1. When things are slow you won't be able to debug it, because you're abstracted away your database and don't understand what queries your ORM is using to do things, and
2. when your ORM migration fails you won't know what to do, because you don't understand your database. In general this happens with every ORM product, ever, because you didn't put in a constraint initially because you didn't know what that meant and then you did later, which caused the migration to fail because your constraint is being violated. Or the migration fails because the tool uses some attribute and not others for drift detection, so it tries to delete your table/database because it's detected drift.
* the way you deal with data in code and in a database are different. Code iterates over objects. If you just use your ORM naively you'll end up doing some ridiculous number of selects because in code it looks like you're just iterating over objects...when in reality the ORM is doing a select/join for each one of those objects. And if you start getting more complicated there are structures that are just harder to do with ORMs...because you have to map what you're trying to do in SQL to the way your ORM works. At that point why not ditch your ORM?
SQL isn't really that hard...but thinking about how do queries is harder than you would expect. It's almost an order of magnitude faster to do joins in the database than to join stuff in-code...but that also assumes that your schema isn't screwed up, it has indexes, etc.
Lastly, a lot of ORMs don't put indexes on columns for some reason, which kills performance. You'd think that would be a detail that would be abstracted away for you at the ORM level, but it isn't. I mean it knows what you're using to select data, so it should auto-create indexes for you, right?