> The problem with Jira...is that it isn't for you.
It's more or less one of those enterprise software packages that will be depended upon in larger orgs, because "nobody ever got fired for choosing $VENDOR". That sort of software tries to do a bit of everything, provide lots of features and customizability, sometimes at the expense of being more complex, bloated and slow.
Most people working on their own projects, when fully in control of the decision of what software they want to pick to best suit their own direct needs, might settle on something like Trello or even Kanboard instead. Personally, I self-host OpenProject because its features are a nice fit for my needs, even if it's still a bit sluggish (Rails app, limited hardware resources). Honestly, the performance of Kanboard was blazing fast when compared to anything out there - which is in no small part thanks to how focused and minimalist it is, which in some cases will be exactly what you'll want.
As another good example, I'd also put something like the Oracle database in same category: there will be many projects out there developed around it, as well as lots of knowledge, training, as well as entire professions built around it. But most people won't necessarily reach for something like Oracle XE for their own personal projects, they'll instead pick something like PostgreSQL or MySQL/MariaDB, because both of those are a little bit simpler to get started with and keep running, while still provide sufficient functionality.
This is an anecdote, but recently I launched all of the mentioned database options one after another in containers, for some testing. Oracle took around 10-20 minutes to start up an de usable. MySQL took about 5-10 minutes to become available for connections. PostgreSQL needed just 2 minutes. That's even before I get into how much data Oracle created in a container volume meant for data persistence (an order of magnitude more than MySQL or PostgreSQL).
I experienced similar behavior when setting up my own trial/testing license of Jira because I needed to do some integration dev work - with the resources given to it, I found it to be pretty sluggish and creating new issues took multiple seconds, which does get annoying when you also want to edit some of the fields, or have to do it often as a part of your work. Though I don't have exact numbers for that, I'm afraid.