A Taxonomy of Public Writers
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Wow. I had always worked under the idea school==good but as my kids grow it really reminds me how much I hated school - even though it educated me.
An uneducated 10 year old may be happy to avoid school all day, but a 30 year old who was never properly educated is most likely going to have a very bad time for the rest of their life.
Trying to shelter kids from every possibly negative feeling, including before it happens, is a natural parenting impulse. However, overly sheltering kids from potential difficult experiences usually leads to much worse outcomes in adulthood.
Definitely address any depression issues if they come up, but trying to prevent kids from ever experiencing any challenging situations will not be beneficial in adulthood.
Meanwhile, adults were telling me that was the best part of my life and always talking about how much harder adult life is, like all the misery of high school was just to prep us for much worse life as adults. Shit, if they'd been right I should have killed myself, truly. I still don't know how they managed to have such horrible lives that high school was the best they'd had. Even when I've been at points where I was working shit service jobs and had to watch the gauge on gas pumps really carefully to make sure I didn't overdraft—that was better than high school. Like, way better.
so either you went to a really bad school and i went to a good one, or your work life was just that much better (which is great). for me both were about equivalent. work gave me a lot more freedom of course (because i simply took that freedom as a freelancer)
Even when I've been at points where I was working shit service jobs
ok, wow, you must have had a really bad school then or horrible peers. but even a job like that can be good when you have great workmates.
That's another thing that's nicer about the working world: there's a lot more room for negotiation if too many tasks are piled on you, or if The World intervenes to prevent something from being done on time, or whatever. And true deadlines (as in: your work will be worthless and dropped in the trash bin if you miss it) are pretty rare. Plus if you work with people who aren't flexible about that kind of thing—you can find another job! Overall there's just a lot more communication and respect and people are way more understanding and laid back, which is weird because adults are supposed to be far more responsible than kids, but the expectations are totally reversed in my experience.
One of the weirdest things to me about high school vs. "real life" is that high school treats everything so very much more seriously and rigidly than most situations in real life that I've experienced. There are hell-jobs out there that are as bad or worse, I'm sure, but at least leaving a job like that on a timeframe of fewer than four years is totally possible.
I find Substack discoverability lacking and i'm yearning for more.
If someone could point me to a corpus i'd even want to try my had at it (I do stuff like this for my day job, so this is all i think about)
So much so I almost wonder if it's an intentional joke? Especially since the section was so under-explained? If so, it's brilliant.
[1] https://biblioracle.substack.com/p/engagement-attention-shin...