Instead of a mutually beneficial compromise like give everyone private individual dressing spaces and listening to potential victims of trans abuse in gendered spaces. You go full offensive mode on me for even suggesting the possibility.
It seems that you don't want political allies, but rather political subjects...
If you're actually open to seeing the issue there are plenty of stories you can search up on this topic. What I mention is hardly unique, I see them with some frequency.
Ignoring these concerns will just cement the political divide and harden political opponents who want to protect female gendered spaces and youth from predators.