I think the point is that the simple presence of a Like button tells Facebook that you've been there. You don't have to click it, you just have to load it. HN comment history is active participation.
But one can trivially block these autoinclusions.
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http://webgraph.com/resources/facebookblocker/
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My work's firewall directs Facebook.com and Twitter.com to /dev/null . This stops all such tracking.
Individuals could do their own blacklist via Greasemonkey / Charles proxy equivalent.
But it is not a problem owned and invented by Facebook, it is any network.