The One Thing in Life You Can Control: Effort
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The control may be an illusion, but the responsibility is still very real.
Take the blame to take the lead.
(These result from injuries, and the medical community has been less than definitive and less than helpful in finding solutions.)
My point is not a self-pity fest, but to say that, from personal experience, I've learned there are physical factors that can limit one's effort. I think that some people who have not experienced this, don't realize nor understand it.
It is part of what makes community essential to achievement. We all learn from others, and passing on our knowledge is essential to continuing this progress. Similarly, people have times during which their ability to do for themselves is limited. At those times, the community can help to get them out of that low spot. (Whether family, friends, and/or a larger agency.) The result is hopefully someone who can once again contribute to the community. (Note that I'm not defining what that contribution should be. In that regard, I support a free market of ideas and personal interests.)
It seems to me that for people who claim to value life, this should be a pretty basic understanding. And yet we have this persistent notion of the self-made person. In moderation, it's a good idea. Everyone has to find their own path and success. Taken to extremes, we end up with "survival of the fittest". This is a workable means of defining hierarchy, but it fails to investigate resource optimization where an investment in another may yield larger dividends. And it is at odds with that espoused viewpoint of "valuing life" in a general sense. It may limit the scope of cooperative ventures. And this is a time where human ventures are ever more complicated and in need of such cooperative effort.
Individual effort is indeed necessary. But we need to look also as a community at what enables that effort, and where there are limitations, to work on removing them. And that I see as a group effort, not just one person grasping their bootstraps.
The bootstraps are necessary, but they are no longer sufficient.
I am lucky enough to have a boss who takes the time to recognize the members in our group as individuals that have our own set of limitations and talents, and judges our successes or failures based on them.
The physical factors you refer to limit ability, not effort. At the point where one is frustrated by limited ability, the person ideally refocusses their effort on resolving the problem: waiting for the proverbial storm to pass, requesting assistance of some kind, restructuring the problem to yield a workaround, or ultimately resolving to move in another direction.
When your health issues are ascendant, do you not wait until they have passed before resuming work? Effort, in the larger sense, is as much about working smart as it is about working hard. Equating effort with exertion is simply folly.
"It is part of what makes community essential to achievement."
Communities naturally form around the implicit understanding that the community will work for the greater self-interest of the individual. If the community can't enable future effort from an individual through communal effort, the community will cut off that individual. People help people who help themselves.
Communities have a greater capacity for achievement, but sorely lack the tolerance and insight of the individual. In fact, it is often through the "self-made man", through massive individual effort guiding communal effort, that great things are achieved. A community is unlikely to achieve such things purely under its own auspices.
"The bootstraps are necessary, but they are no longer sufficient."
In the short-term, bootstraps are sufficient, but none of us operates in a vacuum. In the long-term, neither individual nor community alone is sufficient. However, communities are incapable of adapting to rapid change. Families split, friends depart, empires crumble; the individual endures. If great things are to be achieved, it will be on the strength and agility of the individual guiding the community, not the other way round.
For me, n is large.
Great post!