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Politeness, lack of hate, etc. generally increase trust; that's much of their purpose. How do racial slurs increase trust?

How do you define "pc culture", and what specifically causes problems and how?

Attacking other people's beliefs as "insufferable", and aggressively demonstrating close-mindedness to them, tends to reduce trust.

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In general trust is increased when all parties are speaking openly about whatever they are thinking.

It's a sort of philosophical idea - openness and free expression - taken to a logical and inhuman extreme. I cannot think of a situation where it is appropriate to say whatever I'm thinking. I think it would destroy trust, not least by demonstrating the unreliability of my judgment.

Here is a thought experiment for you. First think of the people you trust the most in this world, then imagine if they stopped speaking about whats on their mind with you. Would your trust in them increase or decrease?

They don't say nearly everything they think; nobody does.

Question is...Would your trust for them increase or decrease if they started speaking less openly?

It depends on how they spoke before. If they said rude things and began refraining, I would trust them more.

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