edited: Also lots of great durable bikes are made in China.
The frames can sometimes be fairly durable, but I've had plenty of mount points shear off and stuff like that, even if the frame doesn't outright fail.
The other problem is that the entire design is often just kitsch 'fashion' and 'disposable', and even if you could fix it/upcycle it economically, it's so heavily 'styled' as to make it undesirable.
See the problem created by the "shared bikes" :
https://www.theatlantic.com/photo/2018/03/bike-share-oversup...
I only have my own experience and some travel to go off, but I routinely see 20+ year old bikes still kicking about, riding as if they were new. I used to do my own repairs at a non-profit that helped people keep their bikes on the road, it's not very challenging or expensive to keep most bikes moving.
Steel and titanium, to my knowledge, will never break from fatigue alone. You essentially need to hit them with a car or a hammer to break em. And you can always keep those frames going indefinitely with welded fixes, as long as you know a decent welder. Rust is what gets steel in the long term, if you don't keep your bike clean, especially if your town salts roads in the winter. But it's otherwise very robust.
In the USA it seems like a lot of people just like new bikes, and neglect their old bikes. Some get stolen. Enthusiasts get upgradeitis. But compared to the carbon footprint of smartphones, cars, asphalt roads, factory farming, and a million other things, I'm not convinced it's a major issue.
I think the fatigue rate of an aluminum frame is overblown a bit. It is certainly a fact about aluminium, but does it actually occur over the lifetime and use of a typical frame? You can expect to use an AL frame for 10+ years, or tens of thousands of KMs, so it still has a longer shelf life than I think most cyclists have enthusiasm to ride.
Consider that most AL frames are made of 2024 or 6061, the same stuff used on aircraft wings which have significant lifespans (30+ years). It depends on the grade and craftsmanship of course but I would not personally worry about the AL itself.
In each case, it was probably more of a welding or detailing issue than the actual material involved.