In other words, if 1 + 2 + 3 + ... had a finite value, then that value would be -1/12. But it doesn't have a finite value, because it diverges.
It's like saying that if pigs had wings, then they could fly. That's not something I'm happy to base physics on.
The mathematically sounds footing for this is unfortunately routinely not taught in undergrad physics.
I mean, do you really think the sum of the positive integers is -1/12? It's very easy to prove that it isn't. (The sum of any two positive integers is guaranteed to be greater than either one of them. Therefore, no sum of positive integers can be negative.)
It's self-contradictory in the definition that you're using for sum. It'd be like saying:
1 apple + 1 orange != 2 fruits because addition only works across the same units.
1. The sum of any two integers is guaranteed to be bounded.
2. Therefore, all sums of integers are bounded.
Many many examples in Math go against natural intuition but they are still useful
for example, you say that the real number isn't "self-contradictory". Look at the banach-tarski paradox, that certainly contradicts intuition. A large part of mathematics is foregoing natural intuitive, and just follow the logical deductions of axioms. That is how we got hyperbolic geometry, which is essential to special relativity.
It is true, that on real numbers addition is an RxR->R function, and you can only add 2 numbers, and you can't add 3 or even infinitely many numbers. But then you can define an another function that can take a whole series as an argument, and call it addition too.
You may forbid mathematicians naming another function 'addition', and talk about infinite sums, but then who cares. You can even die on this hill. Again, who cares.
seems like you're saying "we physicist got this from the math people, take it up with them"
but what irks me, is the attitude that disregards the proper understanding of things which you are making use of (in this sentence: 'you' is a informally defined: 'physicists from community')