If Mary knows everything about red then she also knows what seeing it is like. If she doesn’t… then she doesn’t. They try to have it both ways by hand waving & hiding behind colloquial language but it still comes down to that in the end.
The thought experiment just reveals the writers own biases & limitations of thought rather than be revelatory in any way.
In fact this paper is often used by opponents of qualia as demonstrating why they are nonsensical & incoherent.
Got to say, I agree. Daniel Dennett has his flaws but his argument that this type of thought experiment is a category error & that qualia do not exist and are incompatible with what are basic facts we know about neuroscience should have ended this years ago.