I kind of see where he's coming from but on the other hand, if you have some budget for hand tools, surface mount work is not as hard as you think. The Universe wants it to work; you heat up a board with surface mount components and solder paste on it, and entropy pulls the components to their correct position. So instead of waging war with the laws of physics, they're there to help you. A light touch and magnification are all you need.
I don't have a hot air station (or reflow oven) and I'm perfectly happy building surface mount designs. There are some things I can't do -- super small passives, BGA chips, etc. That's easier to design around than through-hole only.
My tip for the send-to-fab-and-wait workflow is to get someone to "code review" your design. Maybe they will find a dumb mistake and save you a week for a new revision.