Let Teenagers Sleep
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For those sports to thrive, teams need to practice, in order for practice to be efficient, it needs to be at least an hour. So 2 hours are allocated (suit up, practice, suit down). In order for children to be able to commit to 2 hours extra of their time BEFORE their parents get home (5pm), class would have to end by 3pm. Now, pair that with the fact that most school districts don't have enough bus drivers for every school, they pair up. A single bus driver will start their day bussing high school, then will bus elementary school (which starts later in the day). So high school ends a little earlier so the bus drivers can bus the elementary school kids home after they bus the high school kids. In order for the kids in high school to end at 2:15pm for sports and to save money on bus driver employment and bus fleet, they have to start 2:15pm - 8hr: 6:15am. It's crazy. It was like that when I went to high school in the early 90s, it's still the same today.
School hours are set by transportation needs, as you already observed.
Hilarious, given the original thread.
School already starts far too early.
In other words, have the students who do optional activities come in early rather than stay late. Then only some students come in early instead of all of them.
Have some of the non-teaching staff time that is usually blocked into full non-teaching days split into that time, and add more but shorter teaching days,
Some private schools might have small buses. Otherwise, public and private students would use public transport, ride, walk or get dropped off by parents.
But I gather bikes are not a thing in many other countries.
High school sports is a drain on the educational system, plain and simple. It lacks equity - an disproportionate amount of money is spent on very few children. The football coach in our HS has a Vice Principal title, so he doesn't have to teach classes but knocks down $100K+ to run the team. There are maybe 120 kids in the football program, in a high school of 2000.
If you look at Europe, sports clubs are run by outside groups and happen after school on their own resources. I'd love to see that here. I mean, we do have year-round club teams and that's another problem. Too many parents overload their kids with sports either because they're living through their kids, or they think it's a shot at a college scholarship. It burns the kids out and rarely turns into anything profitable.
You need to live somewhere and eat, so it’s not sensible to include those costs with the cost of college.
And most schools don’t require dorming, especially for all 3/4 years. The average student loan debt for a graduating undergrad is 23k. If college costs were truly 100k that just wouldn’t be the case.
Edit: median
> The [median] student loan debt for a graduating undergrad is 23k. If college costs were truly 100k that just wouldn’t be the case.
I fail to see how that necessarily follows because:
- many students and families save for college, so there's a cash downpayment
- many students work to cover part of college costs
- many families work to cover part of college costs
But this seems an unproductive rabbit trail from the issue of letting kids get their sleep.
They read Orwell and Huxley and based on the state of the world those lessons don't appear to stick.
This part:
I wonder if it's possible because everyone isn't constantly threatened by looming bankruptcy if they don't save big piles of cash.
I'm confused. What does it mean?In England, we had a short "physical education" class once a week. That varied between gymnastics, swimming, badminton, indoor cricket, athletics, and occasionally other indoor-ish things.
We also had an afternoon ice a week of "games", which was football, rugby, hockey, cricket, softball or similar. Longer, always outdoor sports.
(This will probably vary within England, I don't think I've ever asked other people what they did.)
It has been fifty years, but I think that PE was twice a week. Class was about an hour.
That's very regional. I don't recall square dancing was ever an option where I grew up.
As an adult, people are so varied. The concept of forcing kids, who absolutely are as or more varied than their adults, into so much structure is cruel. I get that some people are lazy and without something telling them what to do they will happily fail. But school today is more about grinding then down than building them up. And they bully and harass each other as consequence.
Leaving my soapbox there…
I grew up in an asian country and my parents never picked me up after I was 10. I just took buses from home to school and then from school to home. I'm not saying our system is better than the US, but it's a bit of culture shock that everyone commutes in their (parents') cars there.
AKA -
You literally can't take buses from school to home in most cases, and when you can, they're probably way to sketchy for kids to do.
1. Commuting via school bus vs. parents' cars
2. Commuting via public bus
In the US, at least for the first 25 years of my life, most people I knew got to school by school bus unless they lived within walking distance or were old enough to drive themselves. Some kids parents would drive them, but it usually was either due to it being too cold to walk (or wait for the bus), a special occasion where they needed to bring in some large or fragile object for a project, or them being in an unincorporated part of the town that the school busses didn't serve. (I think this was fairly rare.) Since I don't have kids of my own, I don't know how it's changed in the last 25 years, but I still see school busses all over my current city (Los Angeles), so they're still a thing.
Where I grew up in a rural part of the MidWest, there were no public buses. Our town was too small for them to run efficiently.
I was forced to get my drivers’ license at 16 to drive 10 min to school because the alternative was walking 1.2 hours every morning one way ti get to school… meaning leaving the house at around 6:00am.
The city had no city bus, so there was zero public transit option.
That was weird.
In many places this would mean children would be required to bike on 55mph+ 5-lane roads with no shoulder and no bike lane for 5-20+ miles.
Nearly all public schools in the U.S. provide a free bus system for all students for this reason.
Literally every family was expected to have a car, and get their child to school in a car... or somehow have them walk, but apparently not too far, since temperatures would routinely dip to single digits Fahrenheit throughout the winter months.
I rode a bike on our quiet neighborhood streets when I was about 12. I was returning a rented video game back to the store. I generally stayed to the side of the main lane, where cars are typically parked on the street. However, in one area, cars were parked, so I had to go around them.
In spite of me going slowly, and not making any kind of darting move - I gradually moved over and looked over my shoulder for many seconds before I came towards the parked cars - someone behind me yelled a curse word at me as they passed me and flipped me off.
I had the sheer audacity of riding a bike on a street.
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Sidewalks are not really intended for riding bikes, but that was the only place I felt somewhat safe riding them, other than the dedicated walking and bike paths that stretched around the outside of our city and did not get to within half a mile of my high school.
And riding a bike as a 16 year old from December 1 - March 15 through likely multiple inches of snow on the ground, and certainly on icy conditions? No way. The big puffy tires that are somewhat popular today in winter were something I hadn't even heard of in the 1990s.
Edit: and as other commenters mentioned, no bike lanes. Bike lanes on a road in that city were not present until 2012, many years after I was in high school, and even now are being questioned by the mayor of the city: https://www.kfyrtv.com/2022/05/30/safe-biking-routes-bismarc...
So... no, it was not an option. If I had suggested it, my parents, friends, classmates, and teachers would likely all have tried to talk me out of it.
Never commuted on a car or took buses since there were none. Just my town had the houses near the schools. I know now is worse because a lot of the schools have been consolidated into megaschools so I'm assuming this generation drives a ton more.
I thought the GGP was being unfair to athletics. Scholastic athletics are a necessary outlet for a lot of kids, as are theater and music. If you are going to do away with one of them, do away with all of it.
Maybe in certain areas of the USA (Texas, the deep south) you get an excess of public money going to athletics, in which case GGP has a valid point. But that wasn't my experience.
[1] https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/obesity-prevention-source/obesi...
When I was in high school my baseball and football practices were 2-3 hours long and I would be exhausted and wheezing by the end of them. I have a knee injury from freshman year that still bothers me 20 years later. That's an insane time and energy commitment, I see why a lot of kids end up doing nothing.
I'd like to see more options that are lower intensity, don't require a commitment, and meet kids where they're at fitness level-wise.
If my school offered boys' badminton or volleyball (there were girls' teams but not boys), I could totally see myself as enjoying those sports.
In baseball, the very basic skill of hitting is just hard to accomplish. It takes a lot of practice hours to get the bare minimum of competency.
But I think these are two very important cultural games and I would be sad if they weren't played in public schools, it would be a real loss.
So once again we face a problem and I really don't know what the solution is.
Attempts to fix this problem are met with derision and quickly toppled due to politics over reason, see: https://letsmove.obamawhitehouse.archives.gov/healthy-school...
But exercise is also important for managing weight [1], and preventing/managing chronic disease [2]. And only about a quarter of adults in the US meet the HHS' activity guidelines [3].
[1] https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/obesity-prevention-source/obesi...
[2] https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/fitness/in-dept...
You'd be surprised at how many people lose weight just by sleeping better.
When was the last time you jumped out of bed with a spring in your step?
There is also such a thing as diet induced obesity.
In North America, due to its vastness, everyone has drive somewhere, how on earth can people get their exercise if they are driving everywhere? Europe, is compact enough so that people can walk and get stuff, but the food legislation will play its part in creating obesity.
I used to be in two team sports on the same season, theater, chess and computer club in high school and mid school.
Day looked like this wake up at 5:30. Be gross and just brush my teeth and walk to school. Do sport 1 from 6:00 to 7:30 shower and eat food from bag. While entering class at 7:50.
School day ended 2:15 alternating clubs different days (theatre, chess , computer)
3:30 sport 2 till 5:00pm
Walk back home.
I didn't play sports the other season so mostly just play Magic with other folks when sports was supposed to be there.
We also had theatre or music has an elective class. But club did better parts.
Presumably being Vice Principal carries other responsibilities beyond just coaching football. For perspective, the Vice Principal at my high school didn’t teach classes OR coach any sports - being Vice Principal is a full-time position on its own. And this was in a school with far fewer than 2000 students.
I'll also bet that's unlikely to be the case for the football coach.
I'm sorry, I don't get your argument here... in your first sentence you say school sports harms equity, but then you advocate for private sports clubs - which in my poor district would mean a whole lot of kids not able to participate without the publicly-provided funding of those public school activities. School sports, music, theater, etc is the equity that wouldn't be otherwise available if we all moved to privatized education, clubs, etc. Which is not to say if those clubs are available in your community and you can afford them, good for you and your kids.
Why would they need to be able to complete their sports before their parents get home?
For high school football players it's basically practice Monday-Thursday then game on Friday. For basketball players it's basically any day during the week that they don't have a game. I was in marching band and we practiced after school every day.
Why does this happen? Why does everything have to move for this? And if they really absolutely want to do this during daylight hours, why not have the sports before school, and have just the fanatical athletes show up really early while the other students can get a normal night's sleep?
And after school is literally the most convenient time to practice for everyone involved including coaches, parents, and students due to the peculiarities of American living. When I was in school around half of American school children played some kind of organized sport and most probably got the same night's sleep as the other half that didn't. At the collegiate level they do what you suggest and often have two practices a day in the morning and evening for the biggest sports.
But training every day sounds a bit much. As far as I know, even youth football clubs around here only train 2 or 3 evenings a week. Maybe more if you've got a shot at going professional? I've heard of fanatical swimmers swimming every morning before school, but those are exceptions. I did martial arts, and that was just once a week.
I kinda feel like this is one of those situations where Americans think their system is exceptionally inferior ... in ways that are not actually that much dissimilar to what other countries do.
Sorry, but that's insane. That's fine for high-level
near-professional sports
To be clear: high school sports seasons typically last for only 3 or 4 months. So that schedule doesn't seem excessive to me.We're not talking about 52 weeks x 5 days x 4 years.
Not sure if you were already aware. Or if this impacts your thinking.
Now, some parents book their kids' lives so full of sports (multiple sports, multiple leagues, etc) that it DOES become insane in my view. I'm sure that we at least agree on that.
You claim the US is "insane" for having kids play sports year round, and then when informed of reality, you claim that having kids play sports for only part of the year seems "imbalanced" unlike the superior system in your country where they play, uh, "all year round."
There's definitely a communication breakdown here.
To be clear: American sports are extremely a la carte. Kids can play as many or as little as they like. Different sports happen during different seasons. For example in our area schools boy's tennis is in the spring and girls' tennis is in the fall. This is because the courts are outdoor, there aren't enough courts for both to play at once, and too cold in the winter. Summer is generally too hot and kids are on vacation. Winter sports are indoor sports like volleyball, swimming, basketball, etc. If kids are really serious about a sport they can play nearly year round if they like because there are leagues that operate apart from schools.
I'm not calling the system in my country "superior", I'm just pointing out that it's generally once or twice a week all year round. And I think that's a more balanced approach.
But of course the systems are completely different because in the US it's attached to schools, whereas here it's all independent.
every day of the week
I don't know of any school sport that is "every day of the week." Even football is usually 4 days of practice + 1 game per week, 3-4 months a year.If that is your idea of "insane," fine, we can differ.
highly intensive
The vast majority of school sports are pretty casual, quite honestly. For example I used to help the local high school tennis coach. I'm not sure those kids broke a sweat on most days.Football tends to be the most intense. But even then not every day is intense. Usually in the beginning of the week you might focus on strength and cardio. Thursday is more of a strategy day. Kind of a rest day physically because tomorrow, you play. Then Friday is your game.
There are surely exceptions to the rule. When I was in high school there was a nearby team that trained basically year round from what I heard. When their long time coach retired he did it on the last day of the season. He said he chose that timing because their off-season weight training routine started the next day so he was handing things off to the new coach then and there. That sounds pretty excessive to me, but also, if you went to that school and chose to be a part of that sport you knew what you were getting into. So if that's what somebody else wants I'm not going to say they were wrong as long as they enjoy it.
For context please note that even in that "fanatical" school we are talking about perhaps 40-50 kids from a class of maybe 500. This is not the norm for children even in that school. I would point to our childhood obesity epidemic as evidence that, in general, we are not exactly inundating our children with intensive exercise regimens.
But, again, why? They don’t need to be done before their parents are done with work,
In my mind, this is one of the biggest obstacles to changing school timing significantly. Most other objections are internal to a school district, so a single motivated school board could tackle and fix them, but this problem requires coordination between many different school districts all at once.
My kids are lucky in that we're close enough to school that they can leave at around 8:15. When I was in high school I had to get the bus at 7:30, which was a real struggle. The idea of starting school at 6:15 is just pure insanity.
I've never heard of a 6:15 start time.
Also, school was never a full 8 hours. So I'm confused about their reasoning.
The only exception was strictly extracurricular, a men's choir which practiced between 7:00 and 8:00 AM. The expectation, implicitly, was that parents or friends were going to be the ones getting you there.
When I had sports I would usually get home from practice at around 6-630 at night. Ideal time management would mean I'd eat and do an hour or two of homework, but usually I'd stay up until ~2AM using dialup internet to MUD with friends. I was exhausted! Playing MUD did help lead me to my career though, so I suppose it wasn't all bad.
No its not, the article clearly states teenagers need 9 hours of sleep. If you choose to get up at 5am you just need to be in bed by 8pm. If you don't want to go to bed at 8, don't do sport and get up at 5.
The parents and students themselves when they try and do too much.
Even setting aside how hard it is for a teenager to sleep that early.
Additionally most sports teams don't have practice ending at 5pm. My sons basketball team didn't end until 6:30, because they have study hall for the athletes right after school.
Your assertion just doesn't ring true.
In Europe it is normal that school and kids culture is detached. There are cultural activities (including sports) which kids get them self to after school. In USA all these activities are organized by the school it self and if it is outside of the school area, a school bus is organized to take kids there. This could be so much easier if they would just build the schools close enough to population centers with enough biking and walking infrastructure that kids could get there by them selves.
I just felt the need to state the difference in culture here, where US kids activities are really tightly coupled with school activities. While in Europe a simple change in policy—often just on a school administration level—is needed, while in the USA, this is way more complicated.
Yet we still have the high school students starting at ungodly early hours in the morning!
On top of athletics, I was also part of Men's Glee (and symphony choir, and swing choir for a year) in high school. Men's Glee formed while I was in the 10th grade and the only time we had to practice was before classes because all of us were also already involved in other sports and extra curriculars. 10th through 12th grade I was awake at 5:45AM to get to school by 6:15 to practice from 6:30 til 7:15/7:30. There were at least half of a dozen other grouoa starting before school for the same reasons. I was also in swing choir my 11th grade year and we met after sports practice ended. A handful of us had days that started at school around 6:15AM and ended around 7:30PM!
These choirs were good and competitive at the (Ohio) state level but in retrospect I'd have rather slept later. In the case of swing choir, it was very much that I just wanted to leave the school grounds at a reasonable hour.
Why did I do it? To distinguish myself from the masses with the hope of landing scholarships. And it worked. Only paid for state school, but things have turned out well twenty-five years later. hard work pays off. Yes, I would have rather slept in. I'm glad I didn't.
Why does the class portion of the day _need_ to be 8 hours long? My school is still considered one of the highest-ranked in Texas, if that matters, where it’s not uncommon for 25%+ of a graduating class to go on to Ivy’s, so I question if it’s really necessary to be sitting in class for longer than that in the first place.
It seems the real blame is the culture of the US, which values sports above many things. Case in point, people openly despise toiling in academia, yet praise highly toiling in sports. Sports jockeys are popular in schools, yet IMO medalists are not (not that I care. Just to contrast culture differences). It's not enough to get into an Ivy if you are in top positions of AIME, but boy you're going to an Ivy school if are the captain of your school's whatever team.
It feels just wrong that somewhere kids have to market themselves into university by carefully choosing what they do in their free time, just having good grades (and actual knowledge/skills) is not enough.
here in Canada (and many other western countries)
we have the same awful hours but without the same
insane level of obsession with school sports as in the US
I've followed hockey rather closely for many decades, and respectfully, wow.The stories I've read about youth hockey seem absolutely mental to me. Kids staying with other families (billets) hundreds of miles from home just to play hockey, etc. Bullying, abusive coaches, etc. Rampant sexual assaults. Of course many kids (the vast majority, I'm sure) have healthy experiences too.
This is not to say that either the US or Canada are better than the other in this regard, but it always seems to me that they were cut from similar cloth.
Talking about the US' "obsession with school sports" made me laugh. Usually we're painted as a sedentary nation of morbidly obese children. But apparently we're also obsessed with playing sports. Maybe Hollywood is to blame; we've all seen countless movies where the entire school is obsessed with some football game or whatever.
All I can really say is that school sports teams are completely optional. Most kids don't even participate or even care.
So, yeah, I guess what I'm saying is that hockey is an obsession for hockey families. For everyone else... kind of a shrug.
What I'm always shocked with with the US is the degree to which just almost everyone is into football. It's some sort of bizarre national religion, and a default smalltalk conversation topic. When I go skiing with friends in the US and we go up a chairlift with strangers, it seems almost always the icebreaker convo. When I worked at Google I was always surprised to find total CS "nerds" strike up a convo about football.
I personally grew up relatively sheltered from [hockey] and
my own kids don't participate or care
Broadly speaking this sounds a lot like America's relationship with youth sports. It's totally optional and easy to avoid. Especially small-town/rural Canada
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So, yeah, I guess what I'm saying is that hockey
is an obsession for hockey families. For everyone
else... kind of a shrug.
It differs greatly regionally in America too. I live far away from Texas but I think in parts of the South and Texas, etc. high school football is like the thing. Growing up in the Northeast nobody gave that much of a crap about high school football. I went to a bunch of games but it was just kind of a place to hang out.The small town I live in now was the childhood home of a guy who won multiple Super Bowls. Nobody gives a crap about the high school team, the one he played for. It's just not a thing.
What I'm always shocked with with the US is the
degree to which just almost everyone is into football.
It's some sort of bizarre national religion, and a
default smalltalk conversation topic
It's definitely the default smalltalk conversation topic, at least for men. Feels less like "universal obsession" than "lowest common denominator" though, honestly. The comparison here is probably the other great national universal smalltalk topic, weather. You can talk about it with nearly anybody but it doesn't mean it's their biggest thing.Honestly, I like football more than most, but even I only think about it for about 5 months a year and at least half the people in my life aren't fans.
religion
I really do like this comparison. I think it's central to understanding its appeal to America.BUT here's the key: it is the national religion because it is something we do together, once per week more so than because we actually worship it that deeply. In other words, it's social. An excuse to get together on Sundays (if you're in an NFL town) or Saturdays (if you're in a college town).
It's also something we enjoy together that somewhat cuts across class and ideological divides. It is certainly imperfect but in a world that is lacking in unity and common ground, I don't think this is an entirely bad thing.
A lot of places have very rigid work schedules and schools need to account for a certain percentage of parents dropping kids off and then driving to school.
Kids are sacrificed because, surprise-surprise, they have no real say in the matter.
Kids are powerless in the decision making. Most guardians/parents are too.
As you alluded to, "both parents working" + "commute time" = outcome.
This is the rat race in action. Everyone wanting to one up everyone else. To be the top %. To get into the best colleges etc. And so it goes.
I don't see a solution unless it somehow rewrites the rules of the rat race. IE government communal action.
Also, I don't know many office jobs where employees are home by 5 pm either. If you have a 9:30-4:00 school day with 4:00-6:00 for sports, is that a problem? Family dinner at 6:30 or 7:00 pm.
"...A delayed school start could also mean adults with inflexible work schedules are late for work."
In my view, the whole school system largely appears to be a way to safely contain our kids, while we're working hard in the offices or elsewhere. So traditional inflexibility of office working arrangements (opening times often tied to other points of economy, like store or market hours) reflects onto the school starting times. This is especially exacerbated by work commute times.
I was once shocked to learn that some suburbian colleagues had to wake up before 5am in order to be ready in the downtown office by 8am; yep, they would drop off their kids at school too before taking train to the city, that is the kids would start before 8am or at least go for an early drop-off, either way being already awake.
Perhaps the remote work could make this more bearable but most of working parents would rather keep the established school starting hours as being fitting "ok". As for the kids, they just learn to dread the start of another school day and clockwatching it till the end.
I'm not surprised that the top commment of an HN thread is blaming sports though...
Also, by pushing the start times earlier and changing transportation* the district saved about $400K/ year - which is a lot for our district.
* What the district really did was reduce the number of bus drivers to the minimum needed, as they couldn't actually afford them or find enough people willing to take on a part-time job with weird hours. This really meant more parents providing transportation before going to work, IE: the schedule became a chicken-egg problem.
(a) It still felt “early” to me at the time, but not “difficult” to be up for.
(b) I don’t remember anyone complaining about school starting early or people being generally sleep deprived - if someone was exhausted in school we were all amused and curious what adventures they’d been having to stay out way too late.
(c) I do recall that there was an optional “early period” that started at 7:30 and some people took classes then or had sports stuff at that time, and I specifically remembering thinking that you had to be out of your mind to participate in anything requiring you to be up that early.
By contrast my wife, who is much more the “go to bed on time” type than I ever was, had band at 6am and school at 7:30, and describes her high school as a blur that she slept through half of.
So the article’s recommendation for a 9am start time seems pretty logical to me.
I would get up at 5am so I could run before school and I would still be getting emails from students that hadn't gone to bed yet. I don't think any of my students in TX were getting any more sleep than the students I taught in MA. They were just staying up later. But maybe on average, the student body is getting more sleep in TX than in MA ... but no way they are getting 9 hours on school nights.
I would have liked it to start a bit later, or at least ramp up with a homeroom for 30-45 minutes. When I started HS in 2008, we didn't have homeroom classes anymore. Some days I would start bright eyed and bushy tailed doing Calculus at 9am. Bleh.
I took some dual credit classes in my later years. I remember a few of them happened _before_ school started. Those sucked too, but they didn't cost me anything and I graduated with an associates degree so I can't complain too much.
My life habits were carb heavy unhealthy food (from the cafeteria), soda, lack of sleep due to long school commute, not much exercise
As an adult, I eat no carbs, all meat and vegetables, I work from home and sleep in as far as I need every night. My thinking is laser sharp.
They tried to medicate me with all sorts of anti depression drugs and amphetamines. Turns out I was just very unhealthy, from a basic lifestyle perspective. And the school was pushing that lifestyle. My guidance counseler suggested I dont attend college, just a community college (despite the fact that I got admitted to a decent state school), or maybe go into the "trades".
These large scale school systems treat students like cattle, with zero regard for the long term effects. Many mental health concerns would disappear if people were actually healthy in the most basic sense.
What's wrong with guidance counselors in American high schools? Why do I keep hearing about them giving kids incredibly stupid advice?
The job isn't well paid. And anyone who can do large scale talent identification will likely be paid a lot more in the corporate world. So you end up with the least competent ones in public schools.
Community colleges are the best deal in higher education, and often have faculty who are interested in teaching rather than research.
You get what you pay for, and the pay's low. Also, the job sucks. That's a recipe for terrible service.
[EDIT] Incidentally, you want consistently-great counselors, as far as the college planning side goes? Elite prep schools. Half of what you're paying for is an expert with insider knowledge & contacts to ensure your kid gets into the best possible school they can. They treat the position—at least as far as that side of it goes—very seriously, when hiring.
Because most of them couldn't get a "real" job. If they could they'd be making more money somewhere else. (yes, there are some great people doing the job for ideological reasons too)
Whereas many college professors want to do research and do the academia dance, often fobbing off much of the actual teaching to TAs and the like.
most people with insight on good advice do not become high school guidance counselors. why would they?
I think that's by design, though, as school primarily exists as extended daycare so that parents can work.
These mechanisms like diet and sleep have feedback cycles of months, year, or decades. Sometimes even lifetimes. We're extremely bad at learning from them and often fall into short-term traps that cause much bigger long-term harm.
I.e. do we, as a society, know what "a healthy diet" is? Or what "healthy sleep habits" are? I would argue we don't. If you were to survey the median person, they'd probably be pretty outdated and wrong on both. Same for doctors, who typically have their knowledge from med school and haven't kept updated much ever since. In my experience, the typical doctor doesn't know much about chronotypes besides maybe that they exist, and will recite diet dogma from the 80s or whenever he/she graduated.
So while I do agree that the impact is terrible, let's not forget that the median person simply has no idea what works, even the leading frontier of science and researchers is only slightly better off. It's like being mad at medieval peasants for not knowing about electrons or ramjets: it was very unlikely they could've known better at the time.
Reminder to self, tell my children to ignore anything a 'guidance councilor' says
Me: "I dunno"
"Ok, back to class"
I left the room very confused and upset. Went in with ambition and excitement about my future and left feeling like I must be a complete idiot.
I remember her saying “Let’s focus on being realistic. You aren’t actually going to do this. You won’t accomplish any of this”.
Like you I was diagnosed with ADD, though long after this. I was inattentive, but succeeding wildly in technology classes and even went to some programming and animation “competitions” which I managed to win. She still told me to set my sights low and aim for trades or something.
For what it’s worth I managed to trick everyone else into letting me become a programmer and I did well despite the advice. It still haunts me to think that kids are getting slapped in the self esteem with advice from people like that; people who are supposed to give them objective, constructive, actionable advice in order to begin setting up their academic and professional futures.
I’d add though that unlike you, my diet more or less went the opposite direction and I feel much better too. I went completely plant-based with an emphasis on whole foods and as far as I can tell my entire body works better. I’m not saying you’re wrong because I absolutely believe you and agree that we were probably just extremely unhealthy before. Maybe any healthier diet would have sufficed. But yeah, this thing seems extremely variable from person to person. Plant based with heaps of carbs might annihilate your brain, but a bowl of barley with steamed tofu, broccoli, carrots, and peanut sauce is like heavenly brain food for me.
Exercise was the other missing link. The more I exercise the better I feel. I’m like a dog that needs to be taken or runs and swims. When my owner forgets I turn into a needy, whining, anxious, lethargic little beast of a human.
World is a savage place and everyone will try to keep you down. There are lucky few that are surrounded by a support group that cares and safety nets at every corner.
But the one person from a poor household, who never went far in life. No matter how bright, will have noone to put them back upright again. Its pure evil and very unamerican and anti-meritocratic. Its also a thing, thats very common in european societys with rigid class structures, like Britain.
They sort you in, just for your dialect and your place of birth. And look what it got them..
> Cause academic families will not fear such a slap
It's also that, to an academic family, a high school counselor won't even register as a "person of authority". It's a pretty low skill position, and they will likely assume they have more knowledge than the counselor regarding college (which wouldn't be a bad assumption).
> Its also a thing, thats very common in european societys with rigid class structures, like Britain.
It's something that has been echoed to my by brits here in the Valley. They described coming to America as freeing, which confused me at first because I know the BBC and British medias generally aren't so positive on America. Guess the brain flow doesn't lie.
The great thing about the SAD (Standard American Diet) is that most any not-totally-insane restrictive diet will be significantly better. It hardly even matters which you choose, it will be better. When you start with terrible, even "bad" is an improvement!
A major eye opener for me after the last couple of years has been how crazy our diets really tend to be and how easy it is to just stop it. Like, I used to battle internally about if I ate well enough that day to eat [insert garbage here]. Like that's ever a conversation worth having with yourself, or it would ever make sense to want the garbage in the first place. But I figured I was eating whole foods (usually, I guess, maybe?), eating meat from "good" and "ethical" sources, eating what I thought was a lot of vegetables.
And yet the science shows that people who eat like I did are dying earlier than they need to and suffering from diseases people didn't typically get up until recently. And I found myself gradually gaining weight despite not noticing a change in my caloric intake.
I'm not sure exactly what caused me to snap out of it (there were several factors), but in any case, I'm glad I did. And you're right – eating well is trivial if you're starting anywhere near the SAD. With a bit of motivation you can level up tremendously with minimal effort.
If I could support my family as well in trades I might have considered staying — I loved working the giant industrial CNC machine and began to love learning to set it up and create CAD drawings for it. I probably would have enjoyed a career headed in that direction, but I could have ended up earning around 1/3 of what I do now… At best.
Your comment reminded me of going with my dad to a place that had a huge laser-cutting machine when I was young. They were awesome!
Something that blew my mind recently is that I left joinery with a job earning about 65k CAD per year (around 2008). I recently met a guy getting his red seal and he earns about 62k CAD. He hopes to hit 80k within a few years of getting his seal by making lateral moves and bargaining better, but isn't certain it's even possible. This is insane to me. Not only has the value of his work decreased, but even with better credentials than I had he's earning less. This is the completely wrong direction for things to go!
I was also shocked to find that he spends about 36% of his pre-tax income on rent, and when I was earning 65k I was spending about 8% of my pre-tax income on rent. I lived an hour away and shared rent with a room mate in a small house, whereas he lives alone in a small apartment in our expensive city. But wow. What a striking difference; it almost seems impossible to get ahead despite that he's educated, competent, and working hard at improving himself. I feel like that needs to change or we won't see kids move into the trades and, you know, hold up our society here!
Also I totally agree about giant laser cutters. I can't get enough of CNC machines of all sorts. I really, really want to build one some day.
And we actually pay tech workers well.
This is contradictory. Vegetables are high in carbohydrates as a percentage of their calories.
People who switch to "healthy" and feel better pretty much fall into three categories.
* Their new diet is less enjoyable and they simply eat less and burning fat feels good.
* They accidentally switched to a FODMAP diet and associate the lack of "reaction" from food as a sign of health.
* They have been criminally deprived of fiber and are now regular for the first time in recent memory.
While I can only assume the people at that school to have been clueless as to your personal preferences and capabilities I do not see anything wrong with advising someone to skip college and learn a trade. College is not for everyone, college is not needed for many types of employment and college is all too often only used as a filtering device to reduce the number of interview candidates to manageable proportions. Add to that the fact that many colleges have ditched or are on the way to ditching objectivity and the scientific method to replace it with a post-modern portion of bullshit bingo in the name of D.I.E. and such and it suddenly becomes sage advice for many to skip this needless and needlessly expensive step. If you're aspiring to build bridges, heal the sick or raise the dead you'd better get yourself a degree, preferably one which actually means something. If you're planning to go into sales, start a small business or tend to a farm you don't need college.
Another problem is the feedback loop of mental illness. A lot of people might feel better if they got exercise, ate healthy, got enough sleep, made some friends, took on some fun hobbies, etc. but most people aren’t willing or able to do any of that if they are stuck in a bad mental state.
I've found CBT super helpful for my ADHD because it focuses on the small steps to break that loop. I thoroughly recommend it for ADHD and mental illness, particularly for engineers as it's far more system based and obviously "logical" than any other form of therapy I've tried.
The fact that they would pull that shit on 13 year old kids, then tell them they are dumb and fail them is ridiculous. Thankfully I had a few teachers that would stand up for me, but most of them though I was a lazy burn-out and would never amount to anything, and almost no teacher had empathy for me. I should be doing my school work on the bumpy bus that spent more than half its time on rural dirt roads.
When I got my first real job, I was glad to realize how wrong they all were. But it shattered my confidence.
Decades later I’ve had many (eerily similar) experiences to what you detailed above. I’ve gotten the best results evaluating issues on my own / with the help of a few trusted sources. Expert advice is about as reliable as chatgpt (in the majority of cases). There’s too many devils in the details when it comes to complex issues like health. Find people who got results or find results yourself.
I think the majority of modern healthcare exists to make a profit and curing patients isn’t really a good business model. Unfortunately they can use those profits to create an army of experts and studies.
I’ve been listening to a podcast called Sawbones where they talk through the history of medicine. It’s basically a tour of all the ways we got things wrong. My conclusion has been: and why are we so confident that this time we’re right? Seems like every generation is confident that finally, they’ve got it right.
Like story of the fighter cockpit that was designed to perfectly fit the average dimensions of all pilots and was uncomfortable for everyone - no person is average in all dimensions.
On top of that is the absolutist advice - "never do X, always do Y" (particularly when the result of doing X is not shared - it could be a minor inconvenience, or a fatal error, they seem to be treated the same) rather than a nuanced process of tradeoffs and balancing outcomes.
I don't have to be confident that the current scientific consensus is entirely correct to believe that it's virtually guaranteed to be more correct than whatever alternative I'd come up with in some area I completely lack expertise.
Not all healthcare is for-profit healthcare. I agree incentive alignment is an issue when we're talking about for-profit healthcare, but in other cases medical professionals treat patients to the best of their ability.
100%. Healthcare is a big, big business.
This idea modern healthcare exists to make a profit doesn't apply in all cases, and you imply they use these profits to create a false narrative of experts. But yet ignore that exact same thing is happening with the supplement industry (not regulated btw), of people claiming their ADHD was cured by taking a couple of supplements - "it's better than being drugged by Big Pharma" they say. This individualistic mindset only encourages these predatory companies to swoop in and say hey, I know exactly the right cure smoke this, crush these herbs, drink that.
Made even worse by the fact people aren't honest about how their meds have helped them get to a stage where they have replaced old routines with better ones, started therapy, etc. Yet they look back, post on social media "antidepressants are the worst - quit now!"
Forgive me if this is harsh, I've seen way too many people spend way too much money and time on BS when they could have got serious help.
Don't get me wrong, finding a diet that works for you, being more active, being more social, these are all great things nobody disagrees on. But this idea I'm supposed to trust a random person online, cured of his ADD, because he started eating less bread is one I am going to treat with the same severe skepticism you hold regarding mental health experts. :)
You the reader get to read their experience and decide if you would do that or not.
I wouldn't trust a US doctor or dentist (oh god, US dentists are probably the scummiest healthcare professionals on the planet) unless it's something very obvious.
(And most hospitals in the US are nonprofits, which certainly doesn't stop them from being way too expensive.)
I ended up with a math heavy engineering degree. First class honours.
I'm home schooling my kids . They will do better with their parents as teachers. My friends have done it and their kids were academically ready for university years before their peers.
Sleep hygiene: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_hygiene https://www.google.com/search?q=sleep+hygiene
- Enough exercise and water
- Otherwise, limit calories and/or protein in the preceding hours
Sleep induction: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_induction
Pranayama; breathing yoga: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pranayama
4-7-8 breathing: https://www.google.com/search?q=4-7-8+breathing
Attributed both to Army and Navy: https://www.fastcompany.com/90253444/what-happened-when-i-tr... :
> The Independent says the technique was first described in a book from 1981 called "Relax and Win: Championship Performance" by Lloyd Bud Winter.
/? "Relax and Win: Championship Performance" https://www.google.com/search?q=%22Relax+and+Win%3A+Champion... https://archive.org/details/Relax-and-Win_Championship-Perfo...
I need carbs to think.
If I do not have rice for 3-4 days, I can not do research work. I can write code, or read papers, but new ideas or brainstorming others' ideas don't happen as naturally.
Could be a genetic thing, I guess.
* Medication
* Exercise
* Healthy diet
* Healthy consistent sleep
Is it possible that you weren't just unhealthy? Is it possible that diet, exercise, and sleep had exactly the positive effect that they are generally expected to have?
I say this not to reinforce the "maybe" of your own personal ADD/ADHD diagnosis, but to open the door for empathy. You may indeed have been misdiagnosed. You may have a more mild case of ADHD than the mean/average case. You may have a relatively severe case, but experience significant enough relief from your current diet, exercise, and sleep to adequately manage it. Whatever the case may be, I want everyone here to know that it just isn't enough to say, "Just be more healthy." Life is more diverse and complex than that.
The primary effect of ADHD is "executive dysfunction". If the best treatment for ADHD is to eat healthy, exercise more, and get consistent sleep, we must still recognize that that very treatment itself exists behind a wall of executive dysfunction. Even if "healthy lifestyle" is enough, we still need a way to bootstrap it.
It's incredibly normal for anyone with an unhealthy diet, lack of exercise, or lack of sleep to struggle changing any of those things. Someone with ADHD literally has a disorder that makes it incredibly difficult to even get started.
While medication has an immediate and direct benefit, getting through that metaphorical wall to the rest of treatment is widely seen as the primary utility medication provides.
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Whatever your situation is, it sounds like you managed fine without medication. Lucky you. For a lot of us, life just isn't that simple.
When I try to eat my vegetables, I can put them on a plate, hype myself up for them, and then sit staring while my brain shuts down. I am God, and broccoli is damned. When I decide I want to exercise more, I can get dressed, go outside, even get inside a gym, and pace around the weights or the treadmills, or the swimming pools, and get lost deciding what to do, while my brain screams, "I know! leave." When I decide I want to get to sleep on time, I can lie in my bed, breathe deep, relax, start thinking about more things than I can count, while the amount of hours and minutes slide right off the ledger.
Medication doesn't solve any of that, but it makes some of it possible.
Ive read some speculation that the women's right to work movement was just a ploy to double the workforce. Not only that, thet get double the workers for less money since nearly all women are paid less than their male counterparts.
I want women to be able to work because I want the women in my life to not be caught under the thumb of an abuser. If it harms families somehow, that is a separate problem, with separate solutions that do not have anything to do with restricting the independence of women.
>Especially since women are paid nearly half as much as men across nearly every industry.
This is not true when comparing the price of the same labor offered by a man or woman.
>This is not true when comparing the price of the same labor offered by a man or woman.
Okay, maybe not HALF, but you can't argue with the gender wage gap. Men make ~20% more than women.
This is so disingenuous it really shouldn't be repeated. The pay gap within the same job is miniscule. Men and women make different career choices. There's just no accounting for the lack of women applying for high-paying positions as roughnecks.
Why are you blaming the parents? Most people in the world don't have the benefit of flexible tech jobs that allow them to work 10-6 or to come and go as needed during the work day.
Because when Boston tried this, uproar from parents was sufficient to cause meaningful change, but that uproar was directed at their schools and not their workplaces. They used their collective power to defend their work schedules at the expense of their children.
Why not insist on more flexibility in their work schedules, or for additional transportation solutions to assist in getting teens to/from schools? Is this really an insurmountable problem?
School officials are locally democratically accountable. Employers generally are not, and are often able to play workers in different localities (and even states and countries, in many cases) against each other to create a race-to-the-bottom effect.
Parents directed their force against the movable object, not the immovable one.
But it was the wrong one, while making victims in the process.
For most parents, the ability to maintain the work schedule demanded by their employer is rather central to, not a separate unrelated interest from, the health and well-being of their children.
When we have both the economic structure to support and a government run by a political ideology that will allow a robust UBI that makes this optional (and thereby forces employers to accommodate it if they want to have employees at all), we can discuss the issues as if they were separate. But in the concrete would we live in, they are not.
^^gross oversimplification, but I'm standing by it
So there's something to be said for labor where it very easily could be flexible but arbitrarily isn't.
Sometimes older siblings contribute to childcare. A 9th grader that is home at 3pm, can watch a 4th grader that is home at 4pm until parents arrive home at 5pm.
So if you punt the highschool bus to later, you are either making for a very late school day, or making younger kids wake up earlier.
Or the solution could be to triple the cost of school transportation.
Yes, let's try to kill the one form of public transportation we have in the USA that works decently and is widely available.
Where I grew up it was the opposite. Grade schoolers started first at 8:00, middle-schoolers at 8:30, high-schoolers at 9:00. As a high schooler you finish school at 4PM, hardly a very late school day. Younger kids naturally go to sleep and wake up earlier than teens anyways, it's not unfair or harmful to have them start school earlier.
It seems there are programs that exist already to help feed kids breakfast and lunch at schools.
That's not what the GP is talking about. They're saying that there is an overhead to people leaving at different times.
Surely high school aged kids can make their own breakfast.
As that workplace wasn't extremely flexible with time, this involved rescheduling any meetings coming up, leaving, driving home (30 min), getting kid to school (15 min), getting back to work (45 min) if everything was good. Taking an hour and a half to two hours out of a person's work day can be very disruptive.
The issue isn't 9:00 rather than 8:00 or 8:30 but rather a refutation of "are teenagers responsible enough to get to school on their own without any parental coaxing."
Consider the chain of comments:
> > > if the family includes one of each (elementary, middle and high school kids) you still have to make breakfast for them, get everyone ready and head out.
> > Surely high school aged kids can make their own breakfast.
> Surely the high school aged kids can make sure to not oversleep and be responsible enough to ensure that their parents won't get a call at 9:15 when they've failed to show up on time.
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If you're getting all the kids up and ready to go to school at 8:00 am, you've missed the advantage of having a teenager sleep in and get to school at 9:00 am.
If you (the parent) aren't making sure that the teenager is getting to school at 9:00 because you're at work, and aren't getting them up at 8:00 am (with the rest of the kids), then you're going to deal with "teenager slept through all the alarms."
Past a certain age they can do this themselves. A 12 year old is very capable of doing everything besides driving a car
> everyone leaves for school at the same time, so if you move grade 9 forward an hour, you have to do the same with grade 4 to get any benefit; the 9th grader is taking the 4th grader to school. That problem stopped this shift dead recently where I live.
Where?! Around here they don't have enough busses for everyone to go at once. Young kids start late (which sucks, because they've already burnt at least one of their best and most-alert hours of the day by then) and older kids start early (which also sucks, of course). They could flip it—after all, the older kids are the ones best-equipped to get themselves to school after the parents leave for work—but see again the sports-parents' (and, within the schools, coaches and athletic directors') objections.
Everyone concerned would clearly be better off if this little area could be absorbed by another district (it has two better-fit candidates bordering it! Of the three plausible options, it's connected to the silliest one! And, hell, those two are both better ranked, academically than the one it's attached to, by a long shot!) or become its own mini-district—the ones up in the town hate the ones from "down South" (and, yes, there's very explicitly a racist element to this for some of them—which is fucking absurd anyway, the area's majority white and includes some neighborhoods far richer than the average of the town, but having lived in a different but similarly-situated far-removed exurb growing up, I know exactly the kind of messed-up ideas they get about "the city") and resent sending any district money that way, while having to go way North for high school sucks for the ones down South, both due to the sheer distance and because of the, ahem, cultural differences.
Why will they never separate? Losing those kids would drop the district into a less-prestigious sports conference, since they'd be smaller. No way they wouldn't fight any change, tooth and nail, despite plainly thinking the kids from farther south are shit. Plus they, ah, rely on that geographically-nonsensical southern annex for player recruitment. Yes, the whole thing's just as gross, in fact, as that reads. All because of fucking school sports.
But what if the 4th grader doesn't have a 9th grader sibling? Like what do the family do when the 9th grader was a 4th grader? Do parents literally drive them every day to school? Isn't there some kind of school bus system that transports kids from and to their school?
But: smart and healthy children demand wages as adults that cut into shareholder profits…
It is a tragedy of the commons problem. As soon as the other spouse starts working, the family has more money, but once every family thinks to have both partners working, sellers will catch on and increase their prices, bringing you back to the initial problem but now with one fewer spouse at home. It's not a capitalism problem, it's a general markets problem.
That is, if both parents work, prices can rise because demand rises (remember demand is the desire to buy, but also the ability to pay). When prices rise, this puts an even greater pressure on single income families. ie: their single income has to be stretched father because they are competing with two income demand. This is economics 101.
While two incomes increases the spending abilities of the household relative to single income households, it comes with the additional instability of the household depending on both incomes (perhaps they purchase a larger home that requires both incomes to support) while exposing the household to the increased risk of either one of them being fired or laid off.
This is a well-studied phenomenon beyond the interpretation that "work is fulfilling."
As someone who has been a caregiver for school-aged kids (mine are adults now): just what is it that you'd expect a stay-at-home parent to do once all the kids are in K-12 school? The kids are gone for most of the day.
I'm not arguing that all families make the decision to become dual-income households. I'm arguing that there are major economic incentives that push people toward dual-income. This allows for your experience and the observation of counter-examples to co-exist with broad social shifts in family-work structure. The reason it appears true is because it is.
You don't have to accept my word for it.
The other possibility is reading what economists have to say[1] about the effects of inflationary pressures on household income structures. Sorry, but I'm going to put more trust in an expert than someone with anecdotal evidence.
1. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/088636871990003...
When one parent doesn't work, it's because the marginal wage added wouldn't pay for childcare.
In recessions one-parent households actually increase, because it's not caused by things being too expensive.
Pay for…. That’s your clue. Prices are expensive because the owning class is squeezing every dime they can get.
You know… bog standard capitalism…
By having secondary start first, you require 50% less buses.
If we were to switch secondary goes second and primary age students go first, your primary age children would leave for school around 7am and arrive home at 3pm. Most parents are not home at 3pm and this causes a large problem for families. In some instances, the older children who are in secondary schools -- watch the younger children until parents get home.
There is affordable and easy to book out of school hours care for anything earlier or later.
Outside of formal lessons, I'd fill gaps with investigative play, extracurricular at-school sport, or casual activities to line up various year levels.
Elementary school parents who have jobs to get to wind up needing preschool care to fill that gap between their departure time and school start - high school age siblings aren’t even available to cover. Late elementary school drop off times impact parents’ options for work and commuting.
High school age kids can (or certainly should be able to) get themselves to school, so later starts don’t interfere with other family routines.
I think forcing all the additional logistical complexity and cost of pre-school-day care is an accidental and unnecessary layer though.
I was in a lot of pain, and felt like absolute shit, but nobody seemed to understand or care. They would tell me I needed to stop being "lazy" and clean my room, and do my homework. I wanted to really bad... but didn't know why I couldn't focus. I felt an enormous amount of guilt, like I was a total failure.
As an adult, I was able to turn all of that around by focusing on basic health things- exercise, sleep, diet, and processing emotions. It seems like I was just extra sensitive to those issues, more so than most people. As a father, I hope I can help my son from going through the same.
No, this shift does not reverse in adulthood for some people... I am in my 30's and I still fall asleep midnight to 1 AM, and wake up "late" by most adult standards at around 8/9 AM.
I can not shift my sleep schedule to earlier, I've tried many times, it's just not how I am wired.
Why is it so difficult to imagine that people have different sleep schedules? Like, we do not blink at the thought that, say, height exists on a bell curve. Why wouldn't a circadian rhythm?
God save me from the early-riser moralists.
Of tremendous importance to me was learning that not all sleep is of the same “quality”, and that quality affects you the next day. You can learn how to improve sleep quality. Matt Walker is a good start in case your interested. Andrew Huberman has some episodes on it, too, as does Rhonda Patrick.
If you’re happy with 1AM then by all means, don’t change. I wasn’t happy with how I felt during waking hours. I was getting enough sleep, but it was low quality.
That being said, when I used to be on aderall for my ADHD I would often take my second dose of the day right before going to bed, as it would help me calm my brain down and fall asleep.
Caffeine does not affect me or my sleep cycles, it does help me focus though by quieting my mind down, and on the weekends I enjoy drinking a cup of coffee and going back to sleep for 30 - 90 minutes of deep relaxing sleep.
All I wanted to do growing up was sleep. We were the first ones on the bus at 6:30am every weekday, and then my parents dragged us to some kind of sport extracurricular on Saturday mornings and church on Sunday. I would have been so much easier to deal with if I'd just had a chance to sleep.
I used to be a developer/dev manager and in that life, if you booked a 9 or even 9:30 am meeting with me, the odds of me being in by then were low. I loved sleeping in.
Then I moved to the business side and my life was that quite often, I had to be at the airport say 7am. So now there was a REASON to move my life to an earlier schedule and it was doable.
Now we have little kids, who get up super early so there's yet another pull towards an earlier start to the day, and I am able to do it fine.
If there was no pull, I'd probably sleep till 10 but I don't think I'd be happier or more productive.
Trying to shift my sleep schedule for a "REASON" does not work. In fact I used to be late so often that my boss let me have an exception and work slightly shifted hours, this gave him more of my productivity.
This morning when I went to wake him up at 6am he just couldn’t make it so I let him stay at home. This never happened before.
It's a low cost high return kind of thing. If I'd had early diagnosis, I wouldn't have been fired due to getting jobs that really, really wanted my butt in a chair at exactly 9am. (https://twitter.com/theshawwn/status/1392213804684038150)
That said, the rate of narcolepsy is extremely small, so there's probably nothing to worry about. But hey, it happened to me, so maybe worry a teensy tiny bit.
We used to laugh about how loud he snored echoing through the house - but looking back this was more a symptom of a medical issue than a joke.
It's a failure of modern western society IMHO where we see people actually needing sleep as "lazy", rather than a requirement to actually be their best.
another one is that we let the morning people set the rules. If your butt isn't in a chair at 8am cranking out widgets you're "lazy" but the morning people can go home and be in bed at 8pm and they're virtuous and hardworking.
Our society has an implicit bias in favor of the morning people and against the evening people. And I think that amplifies a lot of the "people who need sleep" problems because it's not just needing sleep in general, your sleep patterns had better align to the prevailing social norm too. If you'd rather live 10-7 instead of 8-5... tough shit. And even remote jobs sometimes have meetings/etc that you can't avoid.
One of the interesting ideas about autism is the "night owl" tendency may have been socially desirable in the past... when your life is on the line, it's good to have someone who can reliably be awake all night and focus on small details that might signal danger. But now it's maladaptive since everything runs 8-5 and we are in considerably less danger of being eaten by predators.
(it is unnecessary to medicalize everything, even if it's just that some people prefer to work later, that should be enough. But there seems to be some basis to the connections between autism and sleep problems, something like 80% of asperger's diagnosees have comorbid sleep problems. That seems like the kind of link you really don't see that often or strongly.)
There a lot of possibilities but I'd encourage you to not just write this off as "he's a teenager". He didn't just become a teenager in the last week.
I'm in favor of moving back start times but we should also better study and educate on the consequences of bad personal habits.
This is anecdotal but when I went to live with my grandparents for a summer, I hated every minute of it. They lived on a farm with no wifi. By the last week or two though, I realized I sorta enjoyed it. I was out like a light by 10 pm every day. I was getting more exercise etc. I had no reliable reason to stay up past 10 pm and my body seemed to adjust to what felt natural.
As an adult, I can say that if school started later, I would have just stayed up later. There was even a time in college that I would stay up till 4-5 am. Sometimes you would know a snow day the night before and I would tell my friends on the west coast that I could stay up even later. It was awful but I couldn't see it at the time. It took me years to fix. I now sleep around 1 AM which I still wish I could sleep earlier but I'll take it.
Yeah - and you can get away with bad habits until you can't. An ex of mine was very successful through her early 30s despite being out and partying late quite often. Then she joined Goldman Sachs where the bar is higher, and all of a sudden she was like "shit, I gotta go to bed early if I need to keep up."
He did once rack up a tremendous phone bill by using his phone at night, but I think he learned not to do that any more.
Going to bed in the evening isn't a solution to healthy sleep schedules: it's an accommodation to waking up in the morning.
Why do teenagers need to be waking up early? Since we know that most struggle accommodating an early rise, why not, as a society, accommodate a late rise?
Current school times practically guarantee that teenagers will be too tired and sleep-deprived to learn much.
And of course, even I as a pretty severe nightowl learned some things in school. It was just that I was constantly falling asleep and always sleep deprived and had to catch up on sleep every single weekend. I likely would've done much better had school started 2h later.
Not in all cases. But there are absolutely logistical advantages some kids have and others don’t, and some kids suffer significantly for that disadvantage.
Always exceptions to rules of course. And humans can still do impressive things under duress. Maybe the question is not how do they manage, but how much better could they manage under more ideal schedules, and how many more kids would do better as well?
For example, start school with a study hall (that you can miss if you're so able e.g. if you can drive yourself to school), and let the kids nap. Honestly that would have been a game changer for me, as I never did my homework until the last second.
Getting on my soap box: most important buildings in an educational institution are the library and the sports hall. Healthy mind in healthy body. Dial in formal instruction tactfully. That's really it.
That kind of thing is resolved if there's slack, but in many schools it isn't there: it's just pushed downwards until it hits the students and they get marked late, absent, failing on their work, and blamed for being irresponsible.
I once had a band teacher in high school that wanted us to do an "optional" practice session after school. I did not show up, and the next day she gave me an earful in front of the class because by optional, she meant you had to attend unless you were excused. I explained that that is not the definition of optional, and she should find a different word for it, but she was uninterested in using correct nomenclature.
When I grew up, and what seems to still be the common pattern, is that the buses go out first for high schoolers to start school early, then do a second route to pick up the elementary schoolers who start school later.
Can't we just swap those?
Elementary school kids wake up earlier naturally, and this helps the parents who need to get their young kids off in order to get to work. While high schoolers are perfectly capable of waking up and catching the bus on their own, even if their parent left for work two hours ago.
It seems like it's better for parents' logistics. Am I missing something here?
It's better for students and for parents. You just need to have adequate afterschool programs for grade school kids until their parents get off work.
For the younger kids, each hour earlier they start is an hour earlier they finish, which means parents need to either finish work earlier (not possible for most people), or pay for an additional hour of after-school child care (expensive). Having free child care to cover the gap between school finishing and work finishing is extremely rare, and the acceptable age to leave your child unattended after school is going up due to over protective parenting (for example, I was a latchkey kid starting in the 3rd grade, but nowadays that seems almost unheard of until middle school).
For the older kids, starting later means sports / extracurriculars finish later, potentially after dark or after the parents are done working and expect kids to be coming home.
Funny I never thought about it till now -- in my public elementary school back in the day, the (minority of) kids who didn't have a parent at home in the afternoon, stayed an extra 2-3 hours at school for the rest of the afternoon at no charge, mainly doing art activities like finger painting etc, and they even provided snacks. I remember joining a few times just because I wanted to hang out with my friends there. It was very minimally structured/supervised -- just something to do to maintain interest but not be rowdy, not intended to be "educational" or anything.
I've never heard of that kind of thing since though. But it sure makes a lot of sense for that to be provided standard by elementary schools, now that 2 working parents is the norm.
It's not clear to me that this shift is actually biological in nature, or trained in from years of habit. I still have friends who never got jobs or careers after high school. Now into their 30s they are staying up regularly to 3-4am. If anything, their circadian rhythm has further extended.
If this is the case, "letting teenagers sleep in" might just offset that habit correction into the college years, or the early career years, or etc. Or constitute a permanent change in circadian rhythm for that generation.
Research has indicated that extensive television viewing tends to be associated with sleep problems among children, adolescents, and adults.1-6 However, few studies of risk for sleep problems have assessed television viewing.1 Only 2 studies have investigated the sequencing of the association between television viewing and the development of sleep problems during childhood or early adolescence.2,5 The findings of both studies suggested that television viewing was associated with increased risk for sleep problems during the next 9 to 12 months. However, no prospective longitudinal study has investigated the long-term association of television viewing with the development of sleep problems from early adolescence through early adulthood. Thus, little is known about the nature and direction of the association between television viewing and sleep problems during adolescence and early adulthood.
https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapediatrics/fullarticle/...
This was well before kids commonly had phones, and while I owned a palm pilot, it didn’t keep me up at night and it was… atypical at best for kids to have or perhaps even want them, haha.
Around the time I turned 18 most kids my age had cell (not smart) phones and computers had become common in households, but I don’t recall them being a major sleep disturber yet. I would stay up on mine learning to program and playing StarCraft around 20 years ago, but again, I don’t think this was nearly as typical as kids watching tv in their rooms back then, let alone using phones or tablets today.
Now mornings are the best part of my days. I’m in my later 40s.
Here's a clinical review from 2003 (largely citing studies from the late 1990s) where the same issues were already clear:
http://web.mit.edu/writing/2010/July/Wolfson%26Carskadon2003...
One major part of the problem is that teens tend to go to bed at the same time regardless of when school starts the next day. Hence those students in school districts with earlier start times simply get less sleep, resulting in more irregular sleep schedules. In turn, that leads to worse cognitive performance.
In high school, I was beginning to feel the onset of a chronic major depression, and I absolutely could not wake up on time. My hair regimen took 60-90 minutes to fix up in the bathroom, and by the time I was driving myself, I found an 11-minute route to rocket to school as fast as possible. Most of the time, it would be my father pouring cold water into my face just to get me roused out of bed. Therefore, mornings became an absolutely traumatic time in addition to all the other childhood traumas I was undergoing, and it took me decades to recover from that.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK222804/#:~:text=Resear...
In the article, they link to this website.
https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/specialties/sleep-disord...
I think this is where I'm at. I know its entirely possible to sleep earlier with lifestyle changes. I spent a summer at my grandparents with no wifi, tech etc and going outside to play, I was so bored but damn if that wasn't the best sleep I ever had in my life, lol... and early too, never more than 10 PM.
I'm just worried if we start later and later, it could keep creeping up until you have no reasonable time left to start later. I suppose experimenting with it couldn't hurt though.
Sure, it is possible to have them go to bed earlier, but you're fighting biology
One way to see this -- as I did twice in grad school and once in high school -- is to take a filter, flunk out course when already know the material very well and easily and effortlessly make As and lead the class -- the prof can become really angry that he was not able to intimidate the student, lower the student's self-esteem, show the student that they, the prof, know more than the student could hope to know, etc.
In this case, the 3Rs, the STEM fields, the term papers, etc. are not really the preparation for life but merely the packaging while the real preparation is (B).
Now as an adult, I work from home, so I wake up and go to sleep whenever I want. If I want to wake up at 3PM and go to bed at 5AM, I can do that with no consequence. It's amazing. These days I occasionally have to wake up early, but when I do, I have no problem doing so. I think it's because if I'm waking up early these days, it's because I'm doing something special that I want to do, like traveling. This makes be think think the reason why I had such trouble waking up as a teenager was because I just hated school so much.
Student achievement should be individual but also partly tied to the performance of the school.
Work should be managed via Agile manifesto, with students having stand ups and participating in planning poker. Velocity should be monitored and getting done as many tasks as possible should be encouraged.
Also I think all student work should be done via git.
Just think of the possibilities! We would already have a legion of workers right out of high school! This would put downward pressure on tech salaries, making the workers far less costly!
Mine isn't doing too badly then, I guess. He usually goes to bed way too late in my opinion, after 10 pm, sometimes 11 pm. But he comes out of bed just before 8, so that still adds up to 9-10 hours of sleep.
8:30 is the normal school start time around here, and he can bike there in about 15 minutes. The article doesn't go into what the starting times of the offending schools are, but if it's before 8, then I would definitely agree that's way too early and irresponsible.
As someone who had a night owl tendency and a distinct interest in computers, I ended up staying up late most nights. I'd get 4 or 5 hours of sleep and it was never enough. In 10th grade I just gave up on school because I saw no value in the torture of getting up that early for classes I learned nothing in anyway.
I'm can't say it caused depression, but it surely made me feel like crap every day, almost all day.
And this is not particular to the US. I live in South America and it's the same here. With one benefit - we don't engage in as many extra curricular activities, so that won't be a problem.
1. Long school days mean brains are overworked and so don’t function well 2. Multi month summer breaks actively overwrite what was learned the prior year
When will schooling be built to best optimize brain power?
If anything, the only things kids learn are those that they still know after summer break, or better yet, a couple of years afterwards.
The current model is based on memorizing a whole lot of stuff and then later forgetting it. very little is learned at schools and high-schools. The relationship between invested time and knowledge returned is appalling, but it makes sense once you accept that, like others in the thread have said, school and high school are essentially grown-up childcare.
I don't mean that flippantly. Especially in grader 8/9/10 when summer jobs weren't as common. There are things you don't learn in school, and time for the sake of time is a precious gift.
Separate to that how cynical should we be about these psychology studies? As a science it seems hell bent on demonstrating that it is closer to poetry or religion which means we should start with an extremely sceptical prior before closely examining evidence /especially/ when it is telling us something to which we're sympathetic. Stats is hard, sure. Get it wrong by all means, repeatedly wrong even. There is no excuse for not owning that and correcting it rather than doubling down when that comes out if you're claiming to be a science. None. No excuse for not clearly identifying it every time it happens and publicly noting it. [1] No excuse that every first year, university level psych textbook seems to contain the completely discredited [2] "Stanford Prison Experiment" as though it was anything other than gross scientific fraud. It is still being taught to first year as though it were science. How? Seriously. Is everyone in psychology a fraud? Surely not.
[1] https://statmodeling.stat.columbia.edu/2016/03/05/29195/
[2] https://www.nine.com.au/entertainment/viral/stanford-prison-....
edit: links backing it up for those who haven't yet heard how bad it is or just want it to go away. It won't.
But yes, school shouldn’t start before 9AM.
In actuality education system serves four purposes:
One: make both parents avaliable for the job market. For that it must supervise children during work hours, to make sure they aren't getting in trouble, drugs, or worst of all, into politics and protest
Two - They must habituate little wild chimps into highly unnatural behaviour. Wake up early, commute into arbitrary location, sit in one place for hours on end, stare into paper, whiteboard or screen, perform meaningless tasts tasks that have no meaning to your life. Thats your whole life.
If you don't ease people into this gradually, you run out of psycaotrists.
Three - grade people into quality batches, based off their punctuality and ability to perform meaningless tasks to arbitrary and meaningless quality standards
Four - because the management has gone trhough the same system of educations, the pupils must learn to read through poorly worded vague instructions and understand what their superior actually wants to see, even though they are not capable of expressing it clearly. Poorly worded exam papers serve as good training.
One cannot run (successfully) a corner bakery without being able to handle routine and carry out mundane tasks or without getting up early and doing basic chores as well as being able to interact with others, keep track of your finances, etc. Corp job is much of the same.
You're getting moulded to have the potential to be a productive human being. The alternative is to have people find out what works and not on their own.
Even drugs dealers and macs know the importance of all the above.
Now, sure some people for various reasons cannot conform and revert to more "chimp self" and don't do well in civilization. But even if they became foragers and lived off the land, they'd have to learn routines, have attention to detail, patience and so on.
This is not to say that education, especially for boys and young men couldn't be made considerably better.
Like when the Conquistadors "civilized" mexico Or when the Portuguese and French "civilized" West Africa.
Once you really dig deep into history you can see humans have been wiping off other nations and civilizations left and right. Assyrians, babylonians - all gone. One could make an assumption genocide and warfare are almost instinctive to us.
What's left are few rocks standing, if even that, all ruined by our own hubris and violent nature.
Maybe just maybe “the system” (as you called it) is just a seemingly more civilized way of doing what was done before: surviving.
No matter, without organized mechanized agriculture and the nitrogen fixation process and other technology of the present, most of us would be dead and not able to ponder the question.
To force highly creative people into this routine, is dictatorship of the mind. That's how it was for me.
Edit: I upset the academics :)
It’s like trying to cheat your way into professional sports: if you are not a good fit, it won’t be pretty. And indeed we do have a track for athletes.
To think that all students are identical and they all deserve the same track is myopic. Turns out, we are all different people.
And otherwise or for highly creative people, a grounding in most other things is useful. If you're an artist of some sort, you're going to be writing supporting documentation for exhibitions, or running business admin selling your work. To some degree, I think it's healthy for people to be pushed out of their comfort zone here and there.
Now, could we reform the system? I supposed we could, but society relied on a set of assumptions on how schools work. If you need to implement reforms, you cannot focus on school systems in isolation.
Indeed, but now we are talking about change in two systems.
Like we have 100% proof that starting school later is better for the kids, but many people don't even realise that their taxes are funding childcare, so convincing them to fund additional childcare will be very difficult.
The education system is an education system. It's bad because it's underfunded, mismanaged, and pulled in multiple directions for political reasons, not to mention occasionally tasked with impossible jobs, such as keeping a roomful of emotionally disturbed children going in the same direction using only one underpaid teacher and a couple para-professionals. If it were actively designed to be malicious, it would be a lot more competent.
1. It has to be compatible with the modern system of employment (feat the 40hr workweek, generally a commute, workers who typically fit into many companies in standardized roles)
2. Opportunities to make it more efficient that don't run directly contrary to its stated goal of educating tend to happen, e.g. standardized testing. And because students move around and it's inefficient for everybody everywhere to invent their own curriculum, they need to be standardized.
3. It needs to be legible meritocratically, to its own existence and measure performance, and also to usefully input into the employment system.
"maxwellhill"? :) https://www.nytimes.com/1989/05/18/business/mcgraw-hill-and-... / https://archive.is/bZKuA
(Because they'll all try to get you to do coke.)
> Three - grade people into quality batches, based off their punctuality and ability to perform meaningless tasks to arbitrary and meaningless quality standards
For example, doing math is a useful skill, not a meaningless task.
> Four - because the management has gone though the same system of education, the pupils must learn to read through poorly worded vague instructions and understand what their superior actually wants to see, even though they are not capable of expressing it clearly. Poorly worded exam papers serve as good training
There is a lot of nuance to English communication, at least among native speakers. Things like active/passive voice, hyperbole, and different kinds of logical arguments are implicit to communication in professional circles. It's important to study them.
Also you're ignoring the cultural education that studying literature/writing provides you. There are tons of literary references in everyday communication and you will be at a disadvantage if you don't know them (a "Scarlet Letter", "Big Brother", etc.). These stories are foundational to Western culture and you are expected to know them.
I can't define trig relations, I sort of remember how to do multiple unknowns/linear algebra, can't even remember the definition of a quadratic equation and I couldn't do derivations if my life depended on it.
Funny thing is I used to know this stuff and actually used some of it when I was in to game dev. 10 years later anything that's above elementary school I'd probably need to Google or Wolfram.
> There are tons of literary references in everyday communication and you will be at a disadvantage if you don't know them (a "Scarlet Letter", "Big Brother", etc.)
You can look up idioms/references without reading the works.
Fund free public education. It pays back huge dividends.
And treat teachers with respect.
A lot of people struggle with complexity and it is telling that a forum focused on computer science, IT and general tech is so challenged to realise this.
Whilst I love the cynical view, and it somewhat sadly clicks. I agree high school education sits in the grey. From personal experience the most valuable lesson I leaned in high school is when I was doing something I was interested in getting sleep didn't matter. But learning how to grind through work is a really useful like skill. There's no way to teach hard work. You just got to do it.
It would probably be more accurate to call them constraints.
> to paint the entire educational system with the same shitty brush is absurd.
I am not claiming it's shitty - I do believe you actually have to socialise kids, and familiarise with functioning of modern society, many families parents won't be able to do it.
Yet the flaws in the system are quite real, and you have called some of them out. But calling out the flaws and claiming they are the intended purpose is quite simply wrong.
BTW, you can change who is in control - school boards are locally elected. Your vote has more power to change schools than almost anything else. If you want improvement, get involved.
I don't know your background, but we learned loads of things in school.
Go talk to some kids in the world that are unable to go to schools, and explain them how lucky they are.
On the more serious note, this crap which is so popular among the people who have zero understanding of what education is gets really tiresome.
With that, I think you'd find that most leaders of politics and industry had some manner of classroom education. Homeschooling is not a common practice among the elite. It may still serve the purpose of "habituating chimps into highly unnatural behavior" but if so, it's behavior that is so commonplace as to be indistinguishable from "natural" behavior.
So I'm not sure how we can ascribe all these negative objectives to the Education System as few better methods have come along and found wide acceptance. There's the Waldorfs and the Montessoris and the variety of homeschool co-ops of course, but they are serve a pretty small percentage of students worldwide.
There are some flaws in our education system that are likely the result of the fact that it is huge, serves an incredibly diverse set of people, and thus is a very complex and difficult to manage system.
There's no secret back room of evil people controlling the populace via an imperfect education system. What a weird take.
If I start living in my van to renovate my house, but I never call any contractors or work on it myself, how long is it before I just become a guy who lives in a van? In the same sense as the van, sets of institutions that aren't subject to constant maintenance and orientation towards their purpose evolve to fill whatever broken niche exists by way of stochastic individual action.
> If I start living in my van to renovate my house
Keyword here, "to". "To" imbues the purpose. If you then completely fail to actually do the renovation, sure, that's absolutely a problem, but the van's purpose was still to help you renovate the house. You just happened to fail at it. Intent matters, and the comment I replied to implies a whole lot of malicious intent that is more likely just incompetence or unpredictable outcomes. The difference is important in understanding how to address the issue.
1. In 1945, corporations paid 50% of federal taxes; now they pay about 5%.
2. In 1900, 90% of Americans were self employed; now it's about 2%...
It's called consolidation; strengthen governments and corporations, weaken individuals. With taxes, this can be done imperceptibly over time.
Corporate income tax doesn't matter much when the same money's going to go to an individual and can be taxed there.
…by "90% of Americans were self employed in 1900" do you mean they were farm workers?
An alternate implementation might be a larger condo / apartment where there's a dedicated 'house mom / dad / babysitter' to mind the kids during the day.
In a later stage society with strong / real AI I could see the supervision role entirely as part of the social infrastructure.
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Long term we probably need to engineer society for less children and a target of gene propagation at equilibrium / replacement rates.
[1] Or maybe the cause of our early starts is completely different. It’s not like I have any proof.
The kids who grow up to be high achievers tend to have done well in school, which means at the very least they were able to cope with an early schedule. They then observe the correlation that you note and think to themselves "huh, my parents were right, everyone should wake up early" and proceed to preach it to the next generation, who learns it as if it were some fundamental fact of life and not a consequence of the way we've designed our systems.
It's like the problem with math education: the people who dictate the way that the world works tend to be the ones who did well in the existing systems and can't see anything wrong with them.
The only real catch about this all is the simple fact society is based around the sun, and so if you are someone who wants to get up extremely late (2PM+), you have to work harder to accommodate. But those are very rare outside of health conditions. Even most night owls who say they're not a morning person, tend to wake up before 12PM purely because of how society functions. They can't have meetings when others are asleep!
Although the interesting part is how much this changes in the future, with increasing levels of remote work and automation to compensate.
What I am observing is that it doesn't actually seem to equal out for whatever reason.
There are some major super early risers of course, like Tim Cook. However he goes to bed much earlier at around ~8PM. So you can see how he's trading ~3 hours in the evening for ~3 hours in the morning (contrasting against Satya Nadella's 7AM-11PM schedule [16hrs equal]).
Should have let the leopards eat them.
There are no lobbying groups on behalf of 9am school start times. You have to break the national teachers unions to get this kind of change, which parents appear the right amount of pissed off to do at this point.