>So being human expressing likes and dislikes is now a disease?

No, but if I you are unable to do the things you mildy dislike to the point of being detrimental to your life-quality. There's a difference between "I don't like paying the bills but I'll do it once a month" and "I don't like paying the bills but even if I try to do them I end up not doing them"

I can't really follow your point on the other paragraphs, what are you trying to get at?