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I have gotten a few good answers out of that one.
Reddit, while there are arguments, seems to have some reasonably well behaved users, at least in the subreddits I occasionally ghost, all who haven’t reached any kind of critical mass.
There are SO MANY subreddits. It's bad in that you don't always know which one to go to. Good in that if you don't like one, there's another one that's very similar.
fsbot knows too many things.
I could have five different accounts on five different instances on topics I'm interested in, but then which one do I log into if I just want to read my overall feed? I guess I'd have one primary account, and then I'd log into my secondary account on the paperclips instance when I wanted to toot about paperclips, but this is the point where the UX seems awfully complicated.
Talking on a social network on the Internet is not the same as talking in real life. Unlike Twitter, Mastodon recognizes this.
Maybe all you want to talk about on the Internet is Emacs. Maybe you want to keep your "Emacs nerd" persona totally separate from your "classical music afficionado" persona. Maybe you are part of a group of Emacs committers who want a casual place to hang out.
Outside of the small hassle of adding people, there are no real downsides to joining a random instance.
[1] Outside of super controversial or illegal topics.
It's all about choice.
So your post about keyboard layouts or databases will more likely be discovered/boosted (even if you have no followers on other instances), because the local timeline and hashtags are more quiet than when you're on a general instance (where your posts drown in the noise). Or compared to, say, sauropods.win, were you more likely reach a geologist than a database admin.
Generally I like to be on two or three instances, so my art doodles go to mastodon.art rather than a tech instance (flooded with AI art). I like to check the local timeline or discovery page of other topic-instances via web occasionally, maybe follow someone there to peek into another bubble. The big instances like mastodon.social are just too much, flooded with random stuff I don't care about.
StackOverflow is surprisingly bad and doesn’t really have good new questions, that is true. But the other sites are much more helpful. You just have to understand that it’s a QA site for nontrivial questions (i.e you cannot solve by just googling or reading the docs), not a forum for discussion
I actually almost posted something this week due to some weird segfaults I was having with a third-party library, but the github maintainer was active and responded in his issues list. So, crisis averted.
One of my funniest stories from my time there is how I once closed a question as off-topic (it was) and several years later googled to find one result which was the same question flagged by yours truly (it was still off-topic but the irony wasn't lost).
SE is really a great service especially the smaller niche sites, it just gets a bad rep by the small "elite" few.
[0] - https://area51.stackexchange.com/proposals/40377/blender
The Blender site gets ~50 questions a day. The Emacs site gets ~6 questions a day (with a total of 25k questions in eight and a half years, only about a fortnight of Stack Overflow).
It's just a completely different thing at those scales. It's the difference between a forum with maybe a few hundred people and Twitter.
So calling it "surprisingly bad" isn't fair. I still think it is surprisingly good.
What does that mean? Do you browse new questions for entertainment?