Honestly I think Dokku is complex enough as is without me trying to hamfist my idea of security onto a user's host. I don't think I know enough about the topic to make good decisions that everyone will agree upon (and will be friendly enough to users to not make them upset with Dokku).
I use digital ocean apps and can't help but feel grifted, the price for what you're getting in specs is terrible compared to a VPS or a bare metal. The same is true with Render or Fly. But I just don't have the time or confidence to run my own server.
I feel like there is an opportunity for huge savings here, I just need that fictional piece of software.
That said, I don't use BSD and wouldn't have time to investigate adding support for any of the BSDs.