If you implement all the same logic, then it's all the same logic, and by your own logic, the implementation medium doesn't matter.
Performance may differ but that's a seperate facet from "real" if you are going to allow hardware emulation to count as "real".
Even though a gate provided by an fpga is hardware, it's totally different hardware from that same gate in a native ic. You just get a very similar outward effect, IE, a very good emulation.
This conversation is stupid.