Yes! Sorry didn't mean to sound like I was disagreeing, I was more just riffing on what you said. More riffing below :)
I think $META will continue to win the "social network" game on any computing platform into the foreseeable future, as that's their "unreasonable" competency. i.e. Even if Apple wins the VR hardware game, Meta has an unfair advantage at developing the most popular social media app on that platform.
However, I struggle to see a narrative where the capturable value of that social media landscape increases at growth stock rates into the distant future, given the fact that any VR winner other than Meta is liable to create a more-private-by-default computing platform than previous platforms of computing (this seems to be a secular trend).
So, even if Meta controls the same percentage of the "social media advertising" market into the transition to VR, I could see this being a smaller TAM than "social media advertising" is at (now-peak) web 2.0.
That is, it seems like their only hope to remain a growth stock to become the "Apple of VR", which seems to be squarely outside their circle of competency.
All in all, I'd agree with you and put META in the "too hard" / "probably not" category at current price. Although, even with these uncertainties, $90 was a no-brainer in retrospect (even assuming permanently-flat revenue). With perfect hindsight, I would have bought then and probably sold at $120, although that's all hot air (X