>You cannot ever harass someone through non-interaction

Maybe not harass, but it's a form of discrimination -- only giving professional opportunities to people willing to fuck you is absolutely not kosher.

>Being mildly autistic you can see why I don't date either gender with ridiculous sentiments like these being blown around.

I'm also on the autistic spectrum, and I've never had an issue finding partners, and I doubt that complaints about tutoring are the reason your sex life has taken a pause.