High-Earning Men Are Cutting Back on Their Working Hours
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It turns out it's not sustainable to spend every waking hour working or thinking about work and that people need to have lives outside work. This is even more important for /men/ in particular, because we have now learned about the harm caused by absentee fathers, and it is no longer acceptable for conscientious men to neglect their families in favor of work, as was the way things were done for the last 60+ years.
Sounds like companies should suck up the "loss of money" from not being able to overwork people and hire more. There's plenty of people who would like these high-earning jobs, and our society cannot continue to chew up and spit out people, leaving broken homes and mental health crises in its wake so some investor can make an extra 20 cents in dividends a quarter.
Can you expand on this, references etc? Up until now, I've only heard about the (substantial) harm caused by fatherless homes / single mothers (maybe single parents? not sure, it might be too small sample for single fathers).
A few hits for "emotionally distant parent research"
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36176325/
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14330237.2015.10...
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/319684673_Emotional...
After hearing this person bragging about 'being an asshole stops people from asking him to do work' and the getting the same raise I did has caused me to rethink my work methods.
It is difficult to change, but being a hard working people pleaser seems to be no longer valued.
You don’t get paid for working hard, you get paid at the intersection of what you can project as value delivered and what comp your employer is willing to part with to retain your role.
And if you’re working hard and not seeing more comp, why are you working hard? If you enjoy it, by all means, proceed. But don’t be shocked when others are optimizing for a paycheck alone. It is an economically rational decision.
This seems like great news. I know several guys who've recently opted to earn less in exchange for more time off at home with their young kids. They are happier and the kids love it.
It's common knowledge - or should be - multitasking is a productivity loss, not gain. And the last thing the world needs is another headless-chicken culture where working hard and frantic is confused with smart and efficient.
Guard your calm...no one else will.
And unless the work is literally a matter of life or death, then excessive multitasking - to point you list it as a desired skill - is simply a sign of poor planning, poor priority setting, and so on.
The job ad might as well say, "Must enjoy working at a shit show, or at least has had a life-long dream of working at a circus."
Multitasking from the brain's POV is intensive and a form of distraction. If it's work, then chances are some level of focus and attentiveness is required.
Deep or not, work is work. And focusing the brain to be not-what-it's-wired-to-be is a proven fool's errand.
This phrase made me laugh out loud - literally. Thanks for this!
Also, this thread is spot on.
>But as staff cut back their hours, it costs medical organizations money
it's just companies screeching that they are making less money because salaried employees are doing less unpaid work. I think the pandemic had a large effect on people in terms of
1. Having to face potential mortality much earlier than expected and thus putting lower priority on long term career stuff
2. Gave lots of people a glimpse of how much they miss out on due to commuting and being in office when in reality they can do most of their work from home and get benefits like more time with family, more time for hobbies, etc.
That depends on how many of these jobs are positional and therefore cannot be easily supplemented. In my kneck of the woods we are having an issue with judges. There are only so many jobs for judges. But in recent years more than half of them switched to reduced hours. That lost time cannot be just replaced with a part-timer. This is probably true for many senior doctors too. Not every profession has a substitute pool of qualified people to step in every time a senior person decides to not work Fridays.
Why are they switching to reduced hours? This sounds like the value/output equation is out of line. Why not pay more, or hire more judges to reduce the workload?
Lol. Try telling a pregnant judge that she cannot reduce her in-the-office hours. Or a judge suffering long covid. Or an older judge with medical issues. The dynamic is very different when dealing with very senior and qualified people, especially ones unafraid of courtrooms. And any elected judges are basically untouchable.
You can vote them out; judges can be imoeached for nonperformance. You can increase the number of positions for judges (mayors are obviously different) to account for trends in capacity, to the extent that the reduced hours are appropriate and nonabusive. Etc.
There is a scarcity of judges created by (lack of) funding for courts. Which effectively erodes people's sixth amendment rights too.
- Have team events/other activities which encourage the team to stay late at the office for social reasons.
- Off-sites where everyone is in the same place for 3-5 days.
- Stop by peoples desks and check on what they are working on.
- Walk around and see who has an editor open, ping people who don't for progress reports.
- Check if employees are actually putting in 8+ hours per day. Assign more work to those who seem to be leaving early.
In the remote world you really can't tell how many hours people are putting in. Some engineers do 12 hour days.. some do 4 hours. Some do 12 hours but get nothing done.
Once it stops becoming a “potential” thing, and it’s accepted as reality, then you start making real choices.
The outcome is telling but not surprising. It’s among the oldest human wisdom.
Mayhaps you have found evidence that you are not the earliest-born person to have eternal youth?
Even with official work hours only, it's cheaper to hire, train, and manage one person for 40 hours a week than two people.
edit: Oops, that 5 hour decline is for the highest 10% of workers, not the highest 10% of earners.
Given that they are discussing the hours worked by people making 90th percentile income, I wonder how much of the shift is due to changes in the population that ends up being in the top 10% (there's similar declines in the 80th and 70th deciles, which sort of points away from that concern).
The guy in the article cutting back to 60-70 was and still is an outlier (during short weeks, still a long workday a week more than the mean).
One reason for the decision was I figured in 20 years looking back, I doubt I'll regret sacrificing my career (to some degree), but I can imagine I'd seriously regret missing out on the time with my kids, which you can never get back.
Before I had kids, I remember someone on a podcast saying some thing like 'I'd give anything to go back and have another day with my kids when they were young'. It had quite a big impact on me, and I still think about it often (especially when we're having a hard day!)
As a member of the group in question, I find the data easy to believe. Its less than two weeks work on average. If I get a new job its "normal" for me to take a week or three off, its all voluntary, I could see how in a court of law or as a weapon of propaganda my experience could get spun into being a part of the story.
The top-earning 10% of men in the U.S. labor market logged 77 fewer work hours in 2022, on average, than those in the same earnings group in 2019, according to a new study of federal data by the economics department at Washington University in St. Louis. That translates to 1.5 hours less time on the job each workweek, or a 3% reduction in hours.
So basically this is just saying layoffs exist in tech.
Also, being unemployed for a significant timeframe tends to lower earnings and pull people out of the top 10%.
The problem here is not journalism - it's people unable or unwilling to read correctly. The second sentence contains a link to the study [1] with all the information you need.
> Which is why almost no one reads that stuff
Yep, it is clear people don't read this stuff; many simply assume things instead.
When you fail to read an article then assume it's another example of your prior belief, especially if completely incorrect as in this case, you're simply creating a world view that is not the actual world.
In an ideal world we would have competent scientific journalism that can talk about science both accurately and also in an interesting way. Alas…
And there's ample journalism over that whole spectrum. You just cannot have both accuracy and simplicity.
Men are concluding that women don’t care about money as much as they used to, and having an amazing career to snag a great woman is no longer the best (or even a good) strategy. In some ways, being a dedicated corporate employee makes you unattractive as a person.
I know a lot of guys in their late 20s that think this. And I know a lot of broke bar tenders dating great women.
Unless you are making huge money (> 600k), corporate careers steal from your life and the development of your personality
Incentive structures in society have changed, we are witnessing it in real time
Beyond a certain threshold, throwing money at women doesn't really yield more results. Or at least not the kind of results you'd want.
Cosmetic surgery can improve ugly a little bit too. If you have all that money then you’re able to afford it as well. Even with little money - you can fly to Turkey and get operations for significantly less.
Charisma (rizz) is closer, but on the opposite side of the fence.
You want to aim for charisma, not fluid intelligence. But getting there requires creativity and confidence, which often go hand in hand with intelligence.
In other words, if you have a high g spot, you’re in a good position. Fluid intelligence good to have. But you have to translate it into something social-facing: jokes, a hobby, something other than merely being a meat-based database of knowledge. People can get that from google.
next penny-less musicians doing well too??
I know a few so hard "into the grind" that they are not bothering to learn the language, since it's always english at work and they do not really interact with people outside work. A different approach to life I guess, but probably not more successful on the dating market.
Being a broke bartender is maybe cute in your 20s and maybe they are enjoying the "great women" they are dating.
The problem is - once you hit 30 and beyond, being a broke bartender ain't that cute, and the kind of women stuck dating them aren't that *great" either.
And there's no easy leap from a broke bartender in your 20s to someone who can buy a house and support a family in your 30s.
So what I hear in this story, is maybe someone who would otherwise do 130% to go from "director" to "senior director", doing 120% instead so they can play with their kid and extra few hours a week.
It's a very different choice than opting into broke loserdom.
I’ve only met a few women who earn more than their spouse and can actually only think of one off the top of my head. Every other couple has the husband making significantly more even if their ages are exactly the same.
[1] https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2022/03/what-is-the-g...
It was the norm for generations because women didn't work at all and men were expected to earn all of the money for themselves and their family.
We are not as far removed from those days as people would like to think, expecting the attitude to have completely gone away by now is very optimistic.
> Why is it acceptable
Why would it not be acceptable?
Even in a society with zero bias in favor of men in the workplace, it's still possible that men wind up earning more due to other factors than just bias.
If men are earning more than women doing the same job while all other factors are the same, then that's unfair.
If men are earning more because they are working more hours, or because they are taking more dangerous or undesirable jobs that women choose not to pursue, or if men are choosing higher paid industries more consistently, then that's not unfair. That's economics.
Obviously plenty of women earn more than plenty of men. They don't, as a rule, chose to marry those men.
Even in situations where people are paid by algorithms (i.e. only based on the work they perform, regardless of their sex), men earn more than women because they simply try to earn more (i.e. they optimise for earnings).
"Study of Uber drivers finds men earn more than women — for three key reasons"
https://www.latimes.com/business/la-fi-uber-gender-pay-20180...
The article above doesn't discuss it, but another reason is that men work more; so for the same hourly wage ("equal pay for equal work"), men would still earn more.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/karinagness/2016/06/30/new-repo...
It may be overwhelmingly positive that women are not dependent on men financially, but it doesn't seem dating preferences and cultural norms have kept pace.
When I met my girlfriend she was really clear that she didn't want to date someone who didn't have a similar level of accomplishment to her. It wasn't about money entirely, but money was a part of it.
She has a master's degree and manages a department of people at a fairly big company.
I only have a bachelor, and I don't manage people, but I earn more than her. So I guess it balances out?
She would never date a barista. Not because there is something wrong with being a barista, but I think because what she was looking for was a partner, and it's hard tp be partners if there is a large "success" imbalance between you.
Men are much more willing to "date down" imo because it's culturally more ingrained into us. Women used to not be able to own much, so the expectation was that men "date down" for a long time! We like to think that's all gone away now but it's still very much ingrained into our culture I think.
I think "I want a partner who is at least 6 feet tall" is superficial.
Really what it boiled down to for her is that she worked very hard to get where she was and if the choice was between dating someone who would be semi-dependent on her versus bring single, she'd have stayed single.
She didn't want to be paying for the majority of the house, the car, the groceries, the bills, etc.
Maybe at the very high earning end, some are okay with an extremely attractive woman for the sake of being attractive, but from what I can tell in the engineer/lawyer/doctor/business owner demographic, people generally want someone at a similar achievement level (or at least that can pretend to be).
In my immigrant diaspora, I can see the change between older cousins married off in 90s and early 2000s, and younger ones married in the last decade. The older ones frequently have stay at home moms that never had a career. Almost all the younger couples are dual working professionals, with even men eschewing a partner completely if they cannot land a similar working partner.
Otherwise, "money is a part of it" takes a bit of a weirder tone, ya know? Life happens to people. Health issues are guaranteed to come up. Sometimes it's by chance and that's hardly the time for a life partner to abandon you due to perceived misalignment in values.
However, I think someone is allowed to have certain standards when first looking for a partner, and a different set of standards after a meaningful relationship has developed.
Some people, compatibility is the most important thing. They want someone they can do everything together with, so they have to have very similar interests and day-to-day wants.
For me and my partner, we both wanted someone who wanted similar long-term things and were working hard to accomplish those things. We had very little activities in common when we started dating. I like videogames and DnD, she has very little interest in either. But we've found other things that we love to do together instead of only just adopting the things we both already liked.
People I’ve known who mention wanting someone “successful” were often looking for Ivy League, rich family, etc. It often had little to do with accomplishments of their own doing and mostly to do with being from the same socioeconomic class/upbringing.
This is why guys pulling good money in blue collar work aren’t often getting women from educated backgrounds - even if they have all the markers of what success would mean to most people.
It’s classism - typically.
For instance my city has a lot of blue collar workers making pretty good money, but as a group they have a terrible reputation. Tons of drug abuse and wasteful spending habits.
If you're looking for a dude to party with and who owns quads and snowmobiles and can afford to live large and wants to live large, you probably could date those guys.
And of course there are probably some that absolutely do not follow that behavior trend.
But if you're looking for a more responsible person who lives a quieter life, you're probably better off avoiding the rig pigs.
I mean - are we really going to ignore how poorly doctors spend their money? (doctors are notorious for living paycheck to paycheck!) What about guys in finance in NYC who waste all their money on hookers and blow? This is such a ridiculous argument.
People who spend in ways that many women don't want to exist everywhere. The way they spend the money is just different.
But if a man wants the same things that some other woman wants and she has a PhD and grew up in a rich family and he's only been working in the trades and is from a poorer background - she's not going to get with him even if he makes good money and has all the normal non-class-based traits that she wants from a partner. It's purely classism. I see this shit all the time. I know a lot of women like that - especially in NYC and SF.
Guys with flexible jobs and domestic skills can be very appealing to high income earning women. At one end a friend was doing raft tours and became a cook. A higher pay and status example is a PHD taking care of high end lab equipment married to a high end lawyer. I also know of several cases of women inheriting large sums and windows.
I think it’s fairly common you just rarely know, my grandfather’s second wife was much better off and I had no idea until someone told me.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22407388
https://hbr.org/2002/04/executive-women-and-the-myth-of-havi... (Control-F “Slim pickings in partners”)
> Let’s start with the fact that professional women find it challenging even to be married—for most, a necessary precondition for childbearing. Only 60% of high-achieving women in the older age group are married, and this figure falls to 57% in corporate America. By contrast, 76% of older men are married, and this figure rises to 83% among ultra-achievers.
> “The hard fact is that most successful men are not interested in acquiring an ambitious peer as a partner.”
Anecdotally, I've yet to see a marriage in my peer group where the woman marries down to last more than a handful of years.
Men almost always have no problem marrying down in terms of income & earning potential, as long as their partner is otherwise supportive (i.e. not just using them).
(Obviously unless they're looking to do FIRE or DINK or something: i.e. where dual income, retire early is the life goal)
Probably could think of more if I asked my wife, because I don't keep track of who works where.
I think you were correct up until somewhere around 2015-ish, when there was an inflection point on who marries down more often (now it's women marrying down more often than men).
Chances are you know many more couples that exhibit the opposite pattern.
That doesn't necessarily imply they can't imagine a woman who earns decent money.
It implies that the women earning high salaries aren't dating men that have low salaries (either dating men who also have high salaries or are single).
> Being a broke bartender is maybe cute in your 20s and maybe they are enjoying the "great women" they are dating.
it's like you wouldn't believe women care about other aspects besides stable careers. It's not all just meaningless fun and adventure. I know (professional) bartenders personally, working in more sophisticated bars. They are all very social, easy to talk to and confident. I can understand how they are successful on the dating market and able to have meaningful relationships.
> The problem is - once you hit 30 and beyond, being a broke bartender ain't that cute, and the kind of women stuck dating them aren't that *great" either.
That's so condescending. Is it because you think all great women are already married when they are 30 and home looking after the kids?
> And there's no easy leap from a broke bartender in your 20s to someone who can buy a house and support a family in your 30s.
We are not in the 50s anymore. The women can have the career and support the family! But why would a successful women date a bartender? Maybe love is not guided by your pay grade and people can date whomever they want. And even if money is tight, a happy family is still possible. My family I grew up in ticked all your boxes and it just didn't work out in the end. I guess you will also make all decisions since you bring the money into the family?
> So what I hear in this story, is maybe someone who would otherwise do 130% to go from "director" to "senior director", doing 120% instead so they can play with their kid and extra few hours a week.
> It's a very different choice than opting into broke loserdom.
That's just mean and so primitive that I am sitting here smiling. Have fun with your 120% corporate job! Though, I hope you will see your kids in between. Maybe you can squeeze in some quality 1on1 time on saturday between your 20% extra work. But I guess that you've got the biggest house in your street and your car is also more expensive, that's all that's important, right?
This comment just feels like you consider yourself the superior man and you want to show it.
First, you are talking about which things are possible. I agree all of the things you describe are possible - and happen sometimes. My assertion is that the kind of relationship you describe is exceedingly rare - and even more rarely happy - especially later in life.
Second - my post is preconditioned on a values statement about the long term, which includes the desire of raising up a family into the next generation. That's a values thing, you don't have to buy into that, but empirically as people grow up, they either tend to find their way into having a family, or regret failing to do so.
So yeah it's not the 50s and people can do whatever they want. But people still often chose to structure their life a certain way and attain what seems like better outcomes (I am talking about family formation)
For what it's worth I also came from a broke home and as consequence it took me until almost 40 to find a path to a happy family life, but I am glad I did.
I don't assert that I am a superior man, but I do feel great about having a family, and my ability to provide for my wife and kids is a part of that. My wife recently brought up cutting back on her work (she's an emergency room physician) and I am happy that that's an option I can help her materialize if she wants to.
I disagree. It’s not that women don’t care about money as much as they used to. They actually still care! It’s that other factors are more important now than they used to be. Your looks is very important because women aren’t gonna die without a man (social media and dating apps hasn’t helped men either here). In older times, you needed a man or to be married to make a lot of things happen. We’re in a place now where women don’t need a man for financial purposes. This is a good thing but it comes with the downsides that now women are much more concerned with looks than they were in the past because they can be.
You’re still not going to attract women when you make less money than them. It’s still as important as it was before. For high earning women, the bar is even higher. You can’t just be income match - you often need to make significantly more. If she’s making $300k, you better be making $500k. If you don’t believe me - try getting on some dating apps and getting into a LTR with a woman in nyc or sf. You’ll find out that they care about money as much as they ever did.
Also, dating doesn’t mean long term.
Only Manhattan has more women living in it. Once you account for how many men come into the city at night and date women in Manhattan - it's kinda irrelevant.
It's obviously better than SF for gender ratio but - tbh - it's not any better when it comes to realistic standards for a partner. I'd say it's worse if anything. Yes, the ratio is theoretically better but I find you run into more demanding women here who are constantly shopping around due to the sheer density of people.
Ratio might be good but it doesn't stop people from constantly looking for something better. I've never been in a city where more women in relationships are constantly shopping around - even when they've been with said partner for years and are on their way to marrying them. It's a bonkers place.
I don’t see how your statement becomes less true as income increases. More true if anything in my experience.
Is there evidence to suggest women lining up to date forklift drivers?
How are you considered successful? When you're winning at some kind of game. Let's just say a successful soccer player. Or an actor. Or a musician. Or you have success in business. With that comes money, I agree. But when you're domination some kind of game, the women will follow.
Blind is too full of sad and chronically single dudes for "beta bux" to be as successful as it's claimed to be.
So nowhere near the top 10% of income earners. The real top earners don't do much traditional "work", instead earning money thorough investment and/or family income streams. I would also quibble with the definition of "work", as many activities of top earners would not be considered work by the majority of people. I've been to my fair share of "conferences" that we attendees considered work but looked very much like vacation time to the people serving us drinks at the bar.
I think a great many startup founders might feel that their stock-related income is "earned", especially those who don't pay themselves much of a salary in early years. And every actor/singer/songwriter earning passive income from past artistic works. So too every homeowner or pensioner taking money without actually clocking in on a factory floor. I don't have the numbers, but it may be that the majority of income in the US comes from "investment" or other passive not-earned means.
I'm curious to see your numbers, because I can't imagine how this could possibly be the case. I think you may be living in a bubble.
I wonder even how many of these top non-income earners get their money from inheritance rather than your examples of startups and artists.
Looks like about 60% of wealth in the US is inherited, and the proportion has been climbing.
Perhaps you know this, but just in case and for others, in the US there is a legal distinction between earned and unearned income in relation to taxes. The post you quoted was using the terms in this sense.
For better or worse the passively rich now inhabit the 97th+ percentiles (probably worse if you look at the exponential increase in income above 90th)
If you earn $85,000 and are 25-30, you're in the top 15% of earners in that age bracket in the U.S., iirc.
Conferences are a bad sample because they really are vacations. But it's not representative of how a professional works. My buddy is a neurologist who works 70 hours a week at a hospital. 2 times a year he goes on one of those boondoggles, but the other 50 weeks a year he's spending a lot of time in the ICU.
It's hard to lump high earners into one bucket. There are salesmen and some executives who probably work 30 hours a week at worst. And there are lawyers and IBankers who work 60 on a good week.
Unfortunately the powers that be have decided that this realization is incompatible with how the economy is set up to work, commuting office space work lunches and dinners etc. and so back to the office we will be forced to go.
I know it's easier said than done, but anyone who has the means to do it should try.
You need worker solidarity at a large class level.
Out of all the different types of workers, devs have the most power. But we often don't exercise it. It's so tempting to just go along with whatever your work decides is best, because you've started to think of them as "your group." Once you identify as a part of a group, you're subjected to lots of peer pressure -- from yourself, no less.
The commitment to work is still there, but now more and more have reasonable boundaries.
There's not a relationship in the world worth self-subverting for.
I also have many other uses for that time. My kids won’t be small for long, I have many hobbies I like to do, etc
The work attire for technical professionals shifted from suits and ties to jeans and t-shirts because the power shifted from Wall Streeters to Silicon Valley hippies as the value added to the economy by computers grew.
This smells like another work-cultural element that could shift easily if several startup-types declare four-day work weeks and find themselves enough runway money to get to revenue-positive.
Maybe it's impossible. But if the folks who champion productivity-through-focus are to be believed, those firms should be X times more productive than five-day firms or crunching firms, the numbers will show it, and the industry will follow.
I spent most of last week in all-day meetings with executives, senior consultants, and engineering managers. Each group dressed distinctively. It’s been 3 years since I attended such meetings in person and I’d forgotten…
Execs - suits with open collar/no tie, dress watches (Tag, Rolex, etc)
Consultants - slacks and jacket. Casual shoes (but not sneakers). Apple Watches.
Engineering - jeans and sneakers. Apple Watches.
Not hard and fast rules, but definitely a pattern.
People are being forced back to the office because the banks and the fed fear an economic crisis. They are demanding mass layoffs to destabilize the worker leverage earned in the pandemic and force them back into spending habits that might bail all these cmbss out. Suits never needed to come back. Office space must.
The bailout in 2007 was paid for with our taxes. The bailout of 2023 is being paid with your time and happiness. Never forget it.
I think there's a lot of value in face to face interaction with coworkers, but it's hard to want to go into a office when the trade off is less time spend with my family.
I hope this becomes widespread just so I can point and laugh at those thrust into poverty because their pensions required that young men hoodwink themselves into overwork to be solvent.
Or I can take it easy, let some of the team take on some of the load, and make sure I do enough.
Working harder and working for someone doesn't make you rich or wealthy. It can make you comfortable. I'm already comfortable.
The real money is in ownership. So I'll put less hours in working for someone else and keep my mind fresher and more open to opportunities of ownership that may arise.
I switched to a 32 hour week and I don't feel like my productivity is impacted beyond not being able to attend some meetings, most of which were superfluous anyway. If it's really important I will make the time elsewhere, but that has happened once or twice in ~8 months.
I don’t want to earn more in my career. I’m already rich. I want to work less and do my own thing more. I would think companies would see this in engineers like me and make it a forefront to a recruiting effort.
Then again, this applies less to technology and other knowledge work where it's harder to turn off the background thought tasks.
It’s definitely a trade off—work more hours to advance more quickly and make more money—but working 60 to 80 hours per week is cutting your effective hourly wage by 25 to 50 percent.
Most doctors don't want to engage with a crazy actuarial accounting, hence they outsource it, which can be a reasonable tradeoff.
Nuking that system from orbit with universal single payer would solve this, and also have the beneficial side effect of eliminating the coercive practice of employer-linked health care, which would lead to reduced barriers to entrepreneurial activity.
Just when has a government administration led to a less byzantine system? From experience, it can very well make it much worse. For one, there would be no competition for dollars from providers. (Not that there is much of that now.) Plus you would have a cap on doctor's salaries. Early retirements and a severe doctor shortage has become a real problem.
> Before the pandemic, Eli Albrecht, a lawyer in the Washington, D.C., area, says he worked between 80 to 90 hours a week. Now, he says he puts in 60 to 70 hours each week
Key lines from the article, which give important context and invert what many people's expectations about the situation will be.
Many people also over-estimate their own work hours. I had an employer who measured and also surveyed employees and compared the two results, and found most people claiming 75 hours/week were actually pulling more like 55-65. Some people who thought they were doing over 50 were actually under 40. A lot of people in the company I was in were (perhaps subconsciously) factoring in their commutes as work time, and a lot of people come in a bit late during crunch time but mentally feel like they’re starting work at 9am on the dot, and estimate work hours that way.
I noticed this about myself so I started tracking my time. Has really helped my productivity and the mental drain of feeling like I’m always working. Now I recognize how many other activities I actually do.
It has become clear that the rich aren't going to give the rest of us any of the profits gained as automation makes things more efficient. The only way normal people gain from improvements is if we collectively refuse to work more than we're paid for.
This also smooths the transition to a future in which all work is automated and no one needs to work. That future it far away but it is coming. As less and less human labor is necessary to provide for our survival needs, people should be working fewer and fewer hours and still being able to survive. The alternative is more and more unemployment, with the unemployed being unable to survive, and a ruling class that doesn't work yet touts the need for work because they benefit from labor.
The future where people can work very little to survive is already here, but it's only for those who can produce great value with very little effort.
This is an understandable sentiment because it's been true for all of the history of automation, but I really don't think you're grokking the implications of truly pervasive automation. The using of automation can and will be automated, so the skills to use automation will eventually not be useful skills.
> The people who fall behind won't benefit because they don't contribute.
People don't accumulate resources by "contributing" them. The people who benefit the most from automation are those who use automation to accumulate more resources (including more automation).
The people who accumulate the most resources generally have some projects which create the impression of being prosocial, but the mental illness which causes one to amass huge amounts of wealth, makes one unsuitable to be in charge of prosocial projects. For example, I fully support space exploration, but I really don't think the guy who thinks we should put slaves on Mars is the guy who is best suited to be in charge of that.
The future I fear is one in which the same sociopaths who have been sucking all the resources out of society for themselves no longer need to even pretend to care about the rest of us, because they no longer need workers, since workers are automated.
A search for “statistically significant” yielded no results. So why am I not to assume, especially given the source, that this is more of that “Americans are lazier and less productive” thing that plays out daily in right-leaning media?
It's unwise to think of business owners as left or right leaning, or to think their espoused politics are any indication of how they will act when push comes to shove. Owners are always perpetuating class war against workers.
I disagree: tech leaders may be left-leaning on social issues, but they are not left-leaning fiscally. Corporate America as a whole - tech and media included (Fox, NYT, CNN, NBC) are center-right on fiscal issues. Tech companies may dress up their logos in Pride colors at the right times since that's free and earns goodwill.
I think 4 weeks including company holidays is doable.
When I was 27 my I had 5 weeks PTO and I have never had that much since. All these unlimited PTO places barely get you 3 in most cases. And unlimited is just a scam to not have to pay out when you leave.
Reduced drinking and late night outings.
Less stress. Focused high priority work Now instead of needing to play politics i many fronts to form alliances to move up.
Time to think retirement and plan for it.
More reading and entertainment. Focused on kids education.
Picked up trading with good returns.
Actually watched sports first time in 10 years.
First off, the 32% bracket kicks in at 170k of taxable income, which is going to be at least 183k of actual income because of the standard deduction (probably higher because of itemized deductions).
Second, the 6.2% social security tax stops at 160k of income, so your income in the 32% bracket is really only taxed at 1.8% more than most of your income in the 24% bracket.
That’s a fun grey area where you’re making a lot but not a lot. And the path to making more is paved with leverage, not with hours. You absolutely cannot get to the top 1% by just grinding away.
I can’t find the study right now, but I remember reading that “work for money” tops out at about $400k. The highest average income in USA goes to car wash owners.
And if you are grinding away then you might not have the energy and time to create the real opportunity to help yourself.
Is that an euphemism for money laundering (Breaking Bad) or make car wash owners really that much money?
The market is super fragmented and localized so it doesn’t really matter how many other successful car washes exist. People won’t drive too far out of their way just for a car wash. This puts a ceiling on competition.
Starting a car wash is a big but not huge investment. This also puts a ceiling on competition, but remains accessible to fairly regular people. Starting a car wash also doesn’t require any specialized knowledge.
And because the business is profitable, but not that profitable, it has (afaik) escaped the clutches of private equity consolidation. This keeps money in the hands of local owners thus improving average/median outcomes and keeping variance low.
$1M+/year? $4M+/yr? In profit? On average? And no big company has bought them all out?
I can’t remember the incantation to find the underlying paper they were talking about either. And as you noted, Google has become bad at this sort of thing because most people don’t want those sorts of results.
According to [2] a household needs to earn 570k. This is in line with [3] which claims a household needs to earn 590k. It's definitely feasible for a couple to earn that on salary alone.
[1] https://dqydj.com/income-percentile-calculator/ [2] https://dqydj.com/household-income-percentile-calculator/ [3] https://smartasset.com/data-studies/what-it-takes-to-be-in-t...
If your investments can afford your goals, then quit or scale back. Head over to Bogleheads forums where this situation is frequently addressed.
I then left academia and at this point have been working in the technology sector for a few years as a salaried employee, which in some companies means working 9-to-5, in others 9-9 including weekends, and in some means working at most a couple of hours per day.
I am not ashamed to admit that I work as little as possible and take on new assignments as reluctantly as possible as well. Saving as much time and energy for myself as I can, while keeping an eye on my career progression and not negatively affecting my colleagues with my rather lackadaisical approach to work, is the guiding principle of my professional life. I am a cynic, or a successful pragmatist, as I like to call myself.
I now have time to read, write, think, exercise, hang out with friends and enjoy life. Self-recommended.
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Is this ever factored in when we look into the gender pay gap?
Example: If I can get paid 80% as much money for a 4-day workweek, then I will take home 20% less money but I get 50% more days off. It's a good deal.
I hired an engineer that I can best describe as lazy, and not in the good way.
Thanks to drinking the agile kool aid, it’s easy for engineers to coast and I have to remind the engineers individually that when someone else coasts they all suffer.
Context: 8 hour days and correct estimates are all I ask for.