‘Immoral’ to advise family and friends on life choices, says philosopher
theguardian.com
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'And it is also said,' answered Frodo: 'Go not to the Elves for counsel for they will answer both no and yes.'
'Is it indeed?' laughed Gildor. 'Elves seldom give unguarded advice, for advice is a dangerous gift, even from the wise to the wise, and all courses may run ill.”
I'm only commenting on the news article's interpretation of the paper, which may be wrong, and not the paper itself.
There's nothing about giving advice that violates the right to "self-authorship".
I can vehemently urge somebody to move/quit a job/marry somebody else/have a babby/join a convent/buy a house/cheat on their wife/sell their car/etc and nothing about my speech would ever prevent the other person from having their own choice.
If the argument is that attempting persuasion violates individual rights, then freedom of speech would be impossible.
It's the niche where people blame others for their choices where it gets hairy.
The realisation of responsibility comes with mistakes: I made a bad decision following someones advice but that someone didn't decide for me.
As Oscar Wilde puts it, you have the right to make an ass of yourself.
William Shakespeare, Hamlet, Polonius to son Laertes.